1. Speak and write another language fluently
2. Traveled outside the province many times
3. Traveled outside the country many times
4. Completed my bachelor degree in Journalism
5. Got many articles published.
6. Helped in organizing events.
7. Got a permanent position that I enjoy
8. Got married
9. Had a Child before 30
10. Sang on a stage
11. Played piano on a stage
12. Lived in my own appartment by myself
13. Buy a condo
14. Sang on a CD
15. Getting involved in my work's Union
16. Getting elected as President of my work's Union
17. Got to a convention.
18. Getting involved in Christmas party comitee.
19. Took the bus by myself
20. Traveled by train
21. Took the tube in London
22. Sang on stage with Dad
23. Met my idol.
24. Adopted a cat.
25. Cook a recipe by myself
26. Been to many live shows and plays.
27. Seen a show on Broadway.
28. Seen many Cirque du Soleil representations.
29. Made many paintings by myself.
30. Sang in a choir.
31. Being on television several times
32. Voted every time since 18.
33. Organized a surprise party
34. Organized a bachelorette party
35. Have my hair dyied.
36. Got my ears pierced twice.
37. Did horseback riding
38. Took dance lessons
39. Being a Duchess at a local carnaval
40. Wisdom teeth out
41. Had a cesarian
42. Learned to play chess
43. Learned to ride a bike
44. Took a photo Journalism class and hated it to the point i don't take much photos anymore.
45. Found a way to enjoy things I used to dislike.
46. Put an end to a toxic relationship
47. Wrote publicities for television
48. Wore fake eyelashes and liked it.
49. Got my nails done professionnally.
50. Got on a cruise
51. Ride an elephant
52. Ride an helicopter
53. Ride a convertible Mustang
54. Get invited to a film premiere
55. Get invited on a date
56. Met someone online in real life multiple times
57. Aller en traîneau à chiens
58. Choreographed a dance
59. Seen a ballet live multiple times
60. Swim with no help
61. Dive from a tremplin
62. Paint a picture by myself
63. Cours de gardienne avertie
64. Finally get my slow cooker!
65. Volunteer in an alphabetization centre
66. Saw therapists to solve personal problems
67. Give a proper training to another co-worker multiple times
68. Took a few steps by myself
69. Participated in a focus group in my study field and get paid for my ideas twice
70. Participated in a University research on parenting with a disability
71. Organized a surprise event for my parents ' wedding anniversary
72. Succeeding in helping C getting on the toilet
73. Donate money to charité
74. Overcame my fear of thunderstorms
75. Succeeding bed routine with C
76. Received a meritas
77. Ate a 3 course meal blindfolded
78. Stay at a 5 * all inclusive hotel
79. Attend to my best friend's wedding
80. Drink the greatest bubble tea i've ever tasted, made out of real fruits, in BC
81. Went camping with C ( please do this again)
82. Seen a kids show with C and watch her enjoying the moment.
83. Tried to meditate.
84. Swim without any help.
85. Successfully passed my Maths 418 and 518.
86. Spent a year without glasses
87. Went to prom with friends
88. Dress C completely by myself
89. Tried adapted yoga and liked it
90. Buy some paint for renovations
91. Maintain a Christmas tradition with C
92. Meeting Pierre Bruneau
93. Accompagner mon père à son dernier repos
94. Interact with TVA Montréal
95. Quit my job and start all over again
96. Meeting JMP
97. Vendre une publicité web
98. Try biski and liked it
99. Registered C to school
100. Sent flowers to a friend who was going through a rough time.
101. Submit a poster idea that I created myself.

1) Moved away from my hometown
2) Started going to therapy regularly
3) Got on meds to help control my anxiety
4) Got my dream pet
5) Fell in love
6) Got my first tattoo
7) Interviewed several voice actors
8) Met my childhood idol
9) Started doing things just because they make me happy
10) Left the province
11) Cut out toxic people from my life
12) Adopted a panda
13) Worked as a charity worker
14) Worked in a museum
15) Interviewed for my dream job
16) Got my helix pierced
17) Started a YouTube channel
18) Met several online friends in person
19) Finally got a truly amazing best friend
20) Started truly loving myself
21) Grown from the bad things that have happened
22) Got my own apartment
23) Graduated high school
24) Thrown my own birthday party
25) Met my favourite author
26) Accepted who I am
27) Took the first steps to start my transition
28) Taught myself how to sew
29) Overcome being dyslexic and started reading again
30) Accepted my mental health
31) Learned to grow and function as a system
32) Worked toward being a good advocate for DID and mental health in general
33) Written several drafts of novels
34) Performed live
35) Learned to speak French
36) Went to university
37) Made my own personalized Christmas cards to send
38) Had a Disney movie marathon with Eric
39) Found a new hobby
40) Overcame my eating disorder and am finally at a healthy weight
41) Stopped letting others dictate my life and decisions
42) Watched the sun rise and set in the same day
43) Wrote a letter to my grandfather to finally let go of the pain
44) Went on Theodore Tugboat
45) Learned that self care is not optional, but needed
46) Wrote a message in a public bathroom
47) Got a job with Elections Nova Scotia
48) Found my Prince Eric
49) Got a job with Elections Canada
50) Volunteered for a political party
51) Got my second tattoo
52) Built a bear for my best friend
53) Learned to love myself
54) Embraced and started celebrating being different
55) Started changing the way I think, and changing my behaviours
56) Accepted and embraced my deafness
57) Overcame the pain and learned to love again
58) Overcame my fear of needles
59) Got a job at a video arcade
60) Started letting people in
61) Got my third tattoo
62) Started putting myself out there
63) Started believing in myself and my ability to actually do well
64) Got my nose pierced
65) Started regularly hanging out with friends
66) Got a tuxedo cat
67) Made and gave holiday cards to coworkers
68) Learned how to open a beer bottle
69) Got my thumbs tattooed
70) Survived having COVID
71) Met Dakota
72) Started truly thriving in my job
73) Started accepting it's okay to take days off for my mental health
74) Found a therapist that specializes in DID
75) Took a chance and applied for a promotion
76) Got a Jack Skellington tattoo
77) Got a tattoo I drew myself
78) Survived the 27 Club
79) Went to my first Halifax Pride
80) Finally saw Fefe Dobson live
81) Finally saw Joel Plaskett live
82) Accepted it's okay to be non-binary
83) Met Kellie Loder
84) Finally accepted that I deserve a love like what I have with Ryan
85) Finally gave Ryan a real chance, and gave myself a chance at real love
86) Went shopping all by myself
87) Found a great roommate
88) Learned how to live on my own
89) Went to Build-a-Bear all by myself, and built Oogie Boogie
90) Auditioned for American Idol
91) Met Ben
92) Got to be in the pit for Rascal Flatts
93) Got my industrial piercing
94) Volunteered at Hal-Con
95) Cosplayed as Oogie Boogie
96) Finally met Tanner Zipchen
97) Got to take Adrienne to her first Hal-Con
98) Got to take Adrienne to her first Burlesque show
99) Finally admitted to Larry how I feel
100) Got a job at Michaels
101) Survived

In no specific order:

1. Moved from my hometown.
2. Got pregnant twice.
3. Had children.
4. Wrote a book (and had it published).
5. Fell in love.
6. Recovered from a broken heart.
7. Got married to the one I love.
8. Have been married for over 20 years.
9. Graduated high school.
10. Graduated college Magna Cum Laude.
11. Got a scholarship.
12. Completed my PhD.
13. Overcame depression.
14. Helped a stranger.
15. Helped a friend.
16. Became proficient in a second language.
17. Changed careers.
18. Lived by myself for a few years.
19. Bought a home.
20. Travelled to my dream destination.
21. Had some papers published.
22. Had book chapters published.
23. Got promoted at my workplace.
24. Developed leadership skills.
25. Made a positive difference in someone's life.
26. Learned to bellydance.
27. Spoke at a conference.
28. Overcame my fear of driving.
29. Survived a car accident.
30. Sang in a choir.
31. Hosted a party.
32. Had pets.
33. Bought a car.
34. Learned to tap dance.
35. Cooked a meal.
36. Kept someone's secret.
37. Wrote poems.
38. Won a dancing contest.
39. Helped raise money for a good cause.
40. Got my driver's license.
41. Voted (several times).
42. Planned a wedding.
43. Was a bridesmaid.
44. Acted in a play.
45. Had surgery.
46. Baked bread.
47. Stopped drinking sodas.
48. Didn't eat chocolate for a year.
49. Learned Yoga.
50. Learned meditation.
51. Dyed my own hair.
52. Donated to charity.
53. Wrote e-mails to my Future Self.
54. Kept diaries when I was a teenager.
55. Became a Professor.
56. Organized my finances.
57. Learned about child development.
58. Learned to cut my own hair.
59.

1. learned to walk

2. learned to talk

3. learned to swim

4. fed a tiger

5. went to Disney

6. got my first job

7. bought my first car

8. had my first car accident

9. finished high school

10. determined my values

11. figured out what my relationship expectations are

12. got my AA General Studies

13. moved out from my parents’

14. learned to make 5+ drinks

15. learned to cook 5+ vegetarian meals

16. hosted a UFC party

17. hosted a Christmas party

18. got piercings

19. cared for my first dog

20. cared for my first cat

21. got over my fear of cats

22. learned to garden

23. learned meditation

24. attended a concert in Georgia

25. attended a concert in San Antonio

26. visited the museum in Houston

27. traveled to Chicago

28. visited the Georgia Aquarium

29. got my first “big girl” job

30. reached 25yrs old

31. got over my anxiety in grocery stores

32. lived by myself

33. CPR/First Aid certified

34. got my TEFL

35. build a garden planter box

36. started my emergency savings

37. learned to invest

38. started my retirement savings

39. lost 15lbs

40. rehabilitated a box turtle

41. rehomed a stray cat

42. nursed baby birds to health and took them to a sanctuary

43. worked as a zipline tour guide

44. learned about nutrition

45. took my sister to a once-in-a-lifetime concert for bday

46. tracked my mood consistently for over a year

47. learned to make panna cotta

48. achieved a good credit score

49. took my mom to a “bucket list” concert

50. saw 4 concerts in 8 days

51. made others happy

52. kicked ass at laser tag on my bday

53. learned to ride a bike

54. donated blood on multiple occasions

55. registered as a marrow donor

56. registered as an organ donor

57. saw a movie in imax

58. voted

59. got my wisdom teeth out

60. jaw surgery

61. watched a cirque du soleil show (on ice)

62. went ice skating

63. dyed my hair

64. found out my blood type (A+)

65. went to a convention

66. held a giant boa

67. found teas I liked

68. donated to charity (many times)

69. fell in love

70. explored caves in northern Alabama and in Florida

71. learned to play clarinet

72. took violin lessons

73. made my own ice cream

74. learned to eat with chopsticks

75. got a henna tattoo

76. learned I like roller coasters

77. stood on top of a waterfall

78. tried VR

79. went on a picnic

80. baked bread

81. baked pies

82. made candy from scratch

83. rode in a swamp plane

84. saw the white house

85. strolled through Bellingrath Gardens alone

86. expanded my music tastes

87. became a less picky eater

88. helped multiple friends out of dark places

89. became strong enough to end a toxic relationship

90. learned to eat healthier

91. survived hurricanes (many)

92. took a ghost tour

93. coordinated friends to buy a giant gift together for someone

94. didn’t stop fighting my depression and anxiety

95. met my bio sister

96. once stayed awake for over 72 hours

97. completed a 3 day fast

98. owned over 400 video games

99. got rid of a lot of unnecessary clutter and kept it away

100. reconnected with my spiritual side

101. resolved to keep bettering myself

12. Watch baby turtles hatch

13. See a cheetah run full-speed

14. Appear on the cover of the top trade magazine in my field

15. Open the New York Stock Exchange

16. Play at Carnegie Hall (11 times so far)

17. See the lemurs in Madagascar

18. Give up diet soda (4 months and counting....)

19. Go skydiving

20. Go bungee jumping

21. Visit the Sloth Sanctuary in Costa Rica

22. Raise over 100 foster kittens

23. Visit 32+ countries

24. See Nelson Mandela's cell on Robben Island

25. Study Irish Fiddling in Ireland

26. Go to the Amazon Rainforest

27. Completed two college degrees with a 4.0 average

28. Record an album

29. Commission a concerto

1. Aerial photography

2. Photos published in Phoenix New Times and Phoenix Magazine

3. Moved to a new state

4. Walled on peg leg stilts

5. Climbed the Acropolis

6. Lived by myself in a house for a year

7. Went to Athens, Greece

8. Rode on a cruise ship to Santorini

9. Visited Rome, Italy

10. Graduated HS in top 10%

11. Did art for two music albums

12. Met James O' Barr

13. Met Dan Ackroyd

14. Met Ernie Hudson

15. Helped with creating my proton pack

16 Repaired a toilet

17. Met great awesome people

18 Saw Ghostbusters in a theater

19. Lost significant weight in 2 years (180 to 135)

20. Went to conventions by myself in my early 20s

21. Completed self-paced CTC Graphics and Printing course

22. Drank a half bottle of Chartrues in one night

23. SciFi LGBT speed dating

24. Saw Psychic TV PT3

25. CPR and First Aid Certified

26 Traveled to NOLA twice

27 Traveled to Las Vegas twice

28. Got banned from a BBS

29. .Traveled to Portland

30. Traveled to San Diego twice

31. Met George and Jeff Takai

32. Learned how to crochet

33. Learned how to hand engrave

34. Modeled for a few photographers

35. Can tie a bow tie

36. Put a pop up tent

37. Made others happy

38. Saw Kraftwerk 3D

39. Fought at the Thunderdome 2016

40. Made soap with coconut oil and lye

41. Designed and 3D printed 450 holders to use in a laser maze

42. Launched paper rockets with a 125 psi pneumatic tank and an air compressor

43. Made eight gear box trophies

44. Made a laser maze game

45. Purchased a plotter

46. Made a trophy for a City of Phoenix department for recycling

47. Rode a bike along Newport beach

48. Visited the General Patton Museum

49. Guerilla street art

50. Designed two separate art pieces that friends then got tattooed

51. Filmed parts of a Butoh performance that ended up on a compilation

52. Impossible puzzle assembled

53. Made custom shirts on equipment I own myself

54. Saw solar eclipse while launching paper rockets (2018)

55. Learned hand engraving with gravers on copper

57. Instructed 100+ kids in a two year span on basic soldering

58. Rode on the ladder of 2 Ectos - three times on the main AZGB Ecto and once on Patrick's Ecto.

59. Ridden on public transportation while in full Ghostbuster gear

60. Submitted art to a Laibach fan project

61. Turned a bowl on a lathe

62. Made Hector his Scorpio Logo

63. Went to Legoland in California

64. Made a Thor's Hammer Prop

65. Successfully milled an STL file that I put rendered, a Nelson & Murdock plaque, on a Shopbot

66. Took #65 and painted it and got it signed by Eldon Henson at Phoenix Comic Con 2017

67. Visited Museum of Death in California Nov 2017

68. Visited Ameba Records Nov 2017

69. Kristen Ritter Book signing 2017

70. Promoted to CREATE woodshop manager Dec 2017

71. Purchased van from Dee

72. Won 1st place at a Team Trivia match by myself

73. Built an oversize easel with Jim at ASC

74. Built 17 more oversize easels with others at ASC

75. Saw Front 242 on April 25th, 2018

76. Saw Industrial Soundtrack for Urban Decay @ Filmbar

77. Climbed on a pirate ship made of shopping carts

78. Used a tablesaw alone

79. Changed a car battery for my gf

80. Attended 2 Noxeed shows

81. Found 2 Noxeed pieces

82. Left AZGB and retired from being a Ghostbuster for a long while.

83. Taught Intro to Woodworking to 20+ highschoolers this year

84. Ice skated at Cityscape

85. Participated in GISHWISH at least twice

86. Went to the last night the original Welcome Diner was opened.

87. Saw Negativeland - not playing as Negativeland - with Justin and Dev at Trunkspace

88. Sewed up a notebook to gift to Dee - using dumpster dived paper I distressed with coffee and the oven and scrap leather.

89. Watched the sunrise and sunset while on top of my WW tribe's watchtower.

90. Made limoncello with the limes off the tree that I help plant in the yard.

91. Hosted a sabrage get together for 3 people.

92. Obtained a watercolor/ink sketch by David Mack back in Texas during one of the first WizardWorld cons

93. Convinced boys to let me paint their fingernails back in highschool

94. Puppysat Little Bear

95. Purchased a trumpet using nothing but bookmans trade credit.

96. Used watercolor to make original pieces and designed the cd cover for one of Jay Wikked's music projects

97. Photography, design, photo correction and created a font from scratch for an industrial

band's 6 panel digipack

98. Won a mini growler from Bonus Round at their two year anniversary

99. Wrote a short essay for James W - called "How to Go Fuck Yourself" (Still need to send it)

100. Made it half way through my first "101 Goals in 1001 Days" list.

101. Reached out and personally thanked at least 3 fanfiction writers I do not know in real life.

1 - Learned to walk

2 - Learned to talk

3 - Learned to speak

4 - Learned to swin

5 - Learned to speak english fluently

6 - Learned to speak spanish

7 - Finished school

8 - Got 2 bachelor degrees

9 - Became financially independent

10 - Got my driver's license

11 - Bought my first car

12 - Bought an apartment

13 - Learned to play the keyboard

14 - Danced on stage

15 - Been a runway model (once.. hehe)

16 - Traveled by plane

17 - Traveled alone

18 - Visited Machu Picchu

19 - Lived in London for 3 weeks

20 - Saw several musicals and plays on West End

21 - Used public transportation without getting lost in London

22 - Visited New York City

23 - Saw 2 musicals on Broadway

24 - Saw several famous paintings both in London and New York

1 sung a solo for an audience

2 sung in a city chorus

3 had a butterfly light on my hand

4 had a book of poetry published

5 made a quilt

6 won a talent contest by singing

7 won a costume contest

8 went to a convention

9 spoke at a conference

10 won a poster contest

11 acted in a play

12 acted/sang in a musical

13 made costumes for a play

14 grown miniature roses

15 helped put on a festival

16 won state in HS chorus

17 survived Basic Training

18 learned to shoot an M-16

19 learned to shoot/clean a handgun

20 learned to make jewelry

21 was in an art showing of jewelry

22 had a photography exhibit

23 sold photographs of mine

24 wrote a mystery novella

25 met a famous actor

26 joined a protest

27 helped a friend at her kid's birth

28 volunteered at my local library

29 traveled to England

30 visited Stonehenge

31 did the March of Dimes

32 marched 22 miles in the Army

33 built a backyard shed

34 owned a greyhound

35 played a drum as the sun rose on the Solstice

36 participated in a large community pagan ritual

37 led an herbology workshop

38 led a safe-sex seminar

39 was President of my college's LGBT club

40 co-wrote/produced the club's newsletter

41 marched in an LGBT Pride parade

42 protested at a TV studio

43 traveled to Canada more than once

45 lived in Japan, South Korea, and the Philippines

46 had a duck for a pet

47 won a poster-making contest

48 learned clarinet

49 learned guitar

50 played Bodhran

51 made Yellow belt in Tae Kwon Do

52 written fanfiction

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62) Took up a new hobby and enjoyed it (Crochet)

63) Created an amigurumi monkey for my first crochet project

64) Got better at calling people (whilst suffering from anxiety)

65) Learnt how to hold a guitar properly and learnt 2 chords

66) Went to a SOLDOUT gig to see Megadeth (whilst suffering from anxiety and depression)

67) Increased my weights at the gym

68) Created an exercise schedule

69) Got my ears re-pierced

70) Looked after my ears for 6 weeks (whilst suffering from depression)

71) Organised and created an exercise program for others to help with depression

72) Dog-walking (on and off the lead)

73) Transferred myself to another store

74) Lived with other people (House-share: and never again lol)

75) Brought my own Pandora charm bracelet

76) Completed a high-ropes course that was taller than 3 double decker buses

77) Came 1st in a 3-way zip-wire race

78) Have decorated my own nails with a professional nail art stamping kit

79) Have found the perfect recipe for cupcakes that are super light and fluffy (by tweaking a few recipes)

80) I have kept multiple diaries

81) Gave myself a french manicure

82) Gone to a music festival

83) Been camping

84) Gone ice skating (failed miserably)

85) Rode a horse

86) Died my hair (black, cosmic black (black which looked dark blue in the light), purple and soon to be red)

87) Wrote a short story

88) Have written book reviews

89) Gone hiking

90) Made pizza from scratch including the dough)

1. got into art school

2. moved out of my parents' house

3. finished high school

4. got out of a depression

5. finished univeristy

6. found the love of my life

7. successfully maintained a ten year long distance relationship

8. got a phd position

9. lost 15 kg (gained back 5)

10. got a gym membership

11. learned how to make hollandaise sauce

12. tried yoga, and stuck to it

13. eat nearly only organic food

14. got a more balanced biorythm

15. learned to make mayo

16. tried zumba enough to know that zumba CAN be a lot of fun

17. learned how to make my own laundry detergent

18. published my first scientific paper at age 24

19. tried pilates

20. went to Germany (multiple times)

21. learned to mend my own clothes

22. tried bbb and got bored with it after a few years

23. got rid of over 200 things in half a year

24. stopped buying ugly things

25. learned that by giving things away for free you can only gain in the long run

26. went to Switzerland (multiple times)

27. gave up gluten

28. started dancing again

29. saved 30.000 eur

30. performed on stage (several times)

31. learned how to make fresh cream cheese

32. attended several scientific conferences

33. taught my first course at university

34. learned how to crochet

35. started a blog (several ones)

36. tiled a wall all by myself

37. learned how to sew

38. realized that you don't need a lot of stuff to be happy

39. went to Vienna for a week

40. learned how to draw

41. got myself a DSLR and learned how to use it

42. learned how to grow a garden

43. traveled by myself (once by train and once by plane)

44. allowed myself to get out of unrewarding friendships

45. visited Kopenhagen

46. switched to using loose leaf tea

47. letting go of the past becomes easier with practice

48. went to Croatia

49. visualizing the present/future positively makes life a lot easier

50. shower in the summer rain

51. visited London a number of times

52. realized that i do not need a career, i just want to be successful at something that i enjoy doing

53. share my umbrella with a stranger on a rainy day

54. learn herbal medicine basics

55. have basic woodworking skills

56. learn about the history of our food and agriculture

57. help an old lady cross the street

58. dance until sunrise

59. refurbished an old cupboard

60. learned how to can my own food

61. visited New York

62. upholstered a set of chairs

63. learned how to embroider

64. designed a website from scratch

65. got my photographs published in two different magazines (2013 and 2014)

66. learned about permaculture gardening

67. quit putting honey in my tea

68. cooked on a wood stove

69. got over my hysterical fear of earwigs

70. went to Sweden

71. plastered my own kitchen

72. tried kickboxing

73. learned basic photoshop skills

74. went to helpX for two weeks

75. visited Glasgow

76. learned to live beneath my means

77. made my own perfume

78. switched to using only organic beauty products

79. grew more conscious about my ecological footprint

80. want to France (several times)

81. played the tourist in my own city

82. supported several good causes (through greenpeace, unicef and avaaz)

83. lend money to a friend in need (and got it all back again, thank you friend!)

84. visited Prague (twice)

85. played the tourist in my own country

86. got the job at my first ever interview

87. visited Lissabon

88. spent one week without electricity

89. built an access database (and then forgot how to repeat the process)

90. visited Rome (three times)

91. danced in the rain

92. visited Versailles

93. learned how to make plaster casts

94. wrote a book when I was 15

95. cooked for a party of 80 people (with the help of very industrious helpers)

96. went kayaking on the Lesse river

97. wrote a script for a play when I was 12 (with the help of some friends we performed it in my parent's living room)

98. cooked a three course meal for the first time when I was 9

100. learned how to make candles

101. slept on a night ferry