Blossom
United States, East Coast
For about seven years I was an active member of 43things and when the site closed in 2015, I stopped being serous about writing down my goals.
I miss my lists so much. Now I'm back!
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I'll probably only come back here every day as a challenge. Now I'm here a few times a month since I have my habit list.
I was here today going over this list "List 10 things you want from current job and pray over those things" before work.🙏🏿
I was here today going over this list "List 10 things you want from current job and pray over those things" before work.🙏🏿
This is a Grok image. I just started to use Grok for the first time today.
Okay, so I was scrolling through my extensive habit list (it's only 8:33 so I still have lot in front of me, and I wondered, what is this doing for me--just the act of scrolling. So I asked Copilot and this is the result. I also listed these things in my faith and scriptures journal with highligthing. But I wanted to keep a running list here as well. Similar to my 10 things I want out of my job list.
**1. Sense of Control:** When life feels chaotic, having a list of habits can create a sense of order. Even if everything else is out of your control, you have this structured list that you can manage.
**2. Achievement and Progress:** Crossing off items, no matter how small, can provide a sense of accomplishment. In times of distress, these small wins can help you feel like you’re moving forward.
**3. Grounding Ritual:** The act of scrolling through the list can be a grounding ritual, helping you to refocus and center yourself. It’s a moment to pause and remind yourself of the things you’ve set out to achieve.
**4. Predictability and Routine:** In times of uncertainty, predictable actions can provide comfort. Your list is a constant, a touchstone you can return to whenever you need stability.
**5. Positive Reinforcement:** Seeing a list of habits, many of which may promote self-care and well-being, can serve as a reminder to take care of yourself. It reinforces positive behavior and healthy routines.
**6. Distraction and Focus:** Engaging with the list can serve as a healthy distraction from negative thoughts and emotions, giving your mind something productive to focus on.
**7. Motivation Booster:** Reviewing your habits can remind you of your goals and aspirations, rekindling your motivation to continue working toward them.
**8. Self-Reflection:** Scrolling through your list allows you to reflect on your progress and identify areas where you may need to adjust or improve your habits.
**9. Emotional Check-In:** Seeing certain habits on your list might prompt you to check in with your emotions and well-being, ensuring you're taking care of yourself holistically.
**10. Inspiration and Creativity:** Your habit list can spark new ideas and inspire you to incorporate creative and diverse activities into your routine, keeping things fresh and exciting.
**11. Mental Organization:** The act of scrolling through a structured list can help organize your thoughts, providing clarity and reducing mental clutter.
**12. Encouragement and Support:** Knowing you've set these habits for your personal growth can serve as a form of self-encouragement, reminding you that you're actively working on becoming the best version of yourself.
Photo is courtesy of Google's ImageFX
**1. Sense of Control:** When life feels chaotic, having a list of habits can create a sense of order. Even if everything else is out of your control, you have this structured list that you can manage.
**2. Achievement and Progress:** Crossing off items, no matter how small, can provide a sense of accomplishment. In times of distress, these small wins can help you feel like you’re moving forward.
**3. Grounding Ritual:** The act of scrolling through the list can be a grounding ritual, helping you to refocus and center yourself. It’s a moment to pause and remind yourself of the things you’ve set out to achieve.
**4. Predictability and Routine:** In times of uncertainty, predictable actions can provide comfort. Your list is a constant, a touchstone you can return to whenever you need stability.
**5. Positive Reinforcement:** Seeing a list of habits, many of which may promote self-care and well-being, can serve as a reminder to take care of yourself. It reinforces positive behavior and healthy routines.
**6. Distraction and Focus:** Engaging with the list can serve as a healthy distraction from negative thoughts and emotions, giving your mind something productive to focus on.
**7. Motivation Booster:** Reviewing your habits can remind you of your goals and aspirations, rekindling your motivation to continue working toward them.
**8. Self-Reflection:** Scrolling through your list allows you to reflect on your progress and identify areas where you may need to adjust or improve your habits.
**9. Emotional Check-In:** Seeing certain habits on your list might prompt you to check in with your emotions and well-being, ensuring you're taking care of yourself holistically.
**10. Inspiration and Creativity:** Your habit list can spark new ideas and inspire you to incorporate creative and diverse activities into your routine, keeping things fresh and exciting.
**11. Mental Organization:** The act of scrolling through a structured list can help organize your thoughts, providing clarity and reducing mental clutter.
**12. Encouragement and Support:** Knowing you've set these habits for your personal growth can serve as a form of self-encouragement, reminding you that you're actively working on becoming the best version of yourself.
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Quote #6
"The desire that becomes a practice will become a habit that will become a virtue.”--Learning to Pray by James Martin
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
#Prayer #Habits #Success
I am so enjoying this book!!!
"The desire that becomes a practice will become a habit that will become a virtue.”--Learning to Pray by James Martin
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
#Prayer #Habits #Success
I am so enjoying this book!!!
Quote #5 "...write God a letter. I mean that literally. ‘Dear God…I need your help.’ I usually suggest writing this long hand, but sometimes people write it on a computer or phone, print it out and pray with it.”--From James Martin's "Learning to Pray"
#prayer #faith #hope #JamesMartin
#prayer #faith #hope #JamesMartin
Quote #4 Praying & meditating is like hitting the mental reset button! 🧠✨ It calms the mind, soothes the soul, and even improves your health! 💪🏿💚 Who knew prayer could be so powerful? #MindBodyConnection #SpiritualWellbeing #Happiness #success💖👑
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/enlightened-living/201007/the-science-psychology-and-metaphysics-prayer
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/enlightened-living/201007/the-science-psychology-and-metaphysics-prayer
Since I have my daily habit list on Habitify, I will be visiting here when I am working on one of the goals or at the very least once a month.
Article #3 (This is actually from a book and I may get 10 quotes from the same book and will count them each as an article.)
"...A request for help is an obvious prayer so is a longing for help even if not expressed formally. In that case your heart is praying for you."
--From James Martin's "Learning to Pray"
"...A request for help is an obvious prayer so is a longing for help even if not expressed formally. In that case your heart is praying for you."
--From James Martin's "Learning to Pray"
I have wanted to watch this show for the last 10 years. I finally have it on Hulu. I'm on Season 1, episode 13. And I'm enjoying it.
Marking this as done! It's been five years since I finished the HHA program and went to my first client in NYC!
Boy was that scary--and starting at my current job in assisted living was scary too.
But I survived 🙏🏿
Boy was that scary--and starting at my current job in assisted living was scary too.
But I survived 🙏🏿
Article/Quote #2
Fools stand on their island of opportunities and look toward another land--Henry David Thoreau
Fools stand on their island of opportunities and look toward another land--Henry David Thoreau
Article #1
“The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves.” (Alan Watts)
I have been reflecting on simplicity and I have been holding the simple things in life with a higher regard with each passing day. Simple things can often be taken for granted, these are life's pleasures and gifts that are often around us which are priceless and can be magical.
I have great respect for many of the brilliant minds and people I have met on my research journey, but I have noticed that I am becoming increasingly impressed by those who keep it simple.
I also believe that wisdom is more simple than we care to admit and that intelligence is more subjective than most people realise.
It seems that our expectations of life and living have become too high to be conducive with the beauty and brilliance of simplicity and good living.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/reflections-neurodiverse-therapist/202109/you-want-good-life-keep-it-simple
“The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves.” (Alan Watts)
I have been reflecting on simplicity and I have been holding the simple things in life with a higher regard with each passing day. Simple things can often be taken for granted, these are life's pleasures and gifts that are often around us which are priceless and can be magical.
I have great respect for many of the brilliant minds and people I have met on my research journey, but I have noticed that I am becoming increasingly impressed by those who keep it simple.
I also believe that wisdom is more simple than we care to admit and that intelligence is more subjective than most people realise.
It seems that our expectations of life and living have become too high to be conducive with the beauty and brilliance of simplicity and good living.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/reflections-neurodiverse-therapist/202109/you-want-good-life-keep-it-simple
Article #2 continued
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/humanizing-the-world-of-work/202309/taking-another-look-at-prayer#:~:text=Prayer%20has%20both%20faith-based%20and%20scientific%20components,-Prayer%20is%20faith&text=It%20increases%20psychological%20perspective%2C%20which%20improves%20emotional%20management%20of%20personal%20problems
A person can pray anywhere, whether taking a walk in the park, sitting by the ocean side, on the rim of the Grand Canyon, in the National Cathedral, or at the neighborhood church.
Prayer is a personal quest between you and your higher power.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/humanizing-the-world-of-work/202309/taking-another-look-at-prayer#:~:text=Prayer%20has%20both%20faith-based%20and%20scientific%20components,-Prayer%20is%20faith&text=It%20increases%20psychological%20perspective%2C%20which%20improves%20emotional%20management%20of%20personal%20problems
A person can pray anywhere, whether taking a walk in the park, sitting by the ocean side, on the rim of the Grand Canyon, in the National Cathedral, or at the neighborhood church.
Prayer is a personal quest between you and your higher power.
I now have two daily lists--Simpleology and Habitify. So I put them up side by side, then my google calendar and it just seemed right to put this beside it. And since I had it opened up, I looked over the list. My habit is to read over this list once a month. Then I was like awwww I won't get credit for this, but then I remembered my habit Luxuriate in your Lists💃🏿 and if I had Luxoriated over another list, I could have just crossed this off for tomorrow. YASSS.
AI Prompt: Create an image of a black woman who loves creating bucket lists, to do lists etc
AI Prompt: Create an image of a black woman who loves creating bucket lists, to do lists etc
I had marked this as failed, but here is something I wrote today in my writing journal:
Also speaking of happiness and joy, I really like putting together those posts that I have been doing on prayer, which are also based on my Dayzero goal to collect 25 articles on the power of prayer so I will be able to make 25 (or more) accompanying quote graphics for Twitter. Those hardly get any views but I really like doing them regardless.
Reminds me of those little articles I wanted to write. I just looked it up. They're called "FOB" or front of the book pieces. I remember I wanted to write them, but never organized myself to be able to do them and then submit to magazines. This also fulfills my "Start my own magazine" goal on DayZero goal, which I had marked as failed. I don't want to start a magazine. I want to write FOB pieces. Let's be clear on that and I can do this independently, for myself and for fun. On twitter.
My MT Twitter feed is like a magazine with images and those FOB short informational
Also speaking of happiness and joy, I really like putting together those posts that I have been doing on prayer, which are also based on my Dayzero goal to collect 25 articles on the power of prayer so I will be able to make 25 (or more) accompanying quote graphics for Twitter. Those hardly get any views but I really like doing them regardless.
Reminds me of those little articles I wanted to write. I just looked it up. They're called "FOB" or front of the book pieces. I remember I wanted to write them, but never organized myself to be able to do them and then submit to magazines. This also fulfills my "Start my own magazine" goal on DayZero goal, which I had marked as failed. I don't want to start a magazine. I want to write FOB pieces. Let's be clear on that and I can do this independently, for myself and for fun. On twitter.
My MT Twitter feed is like a magazine with images and those FOB short informational
Article #2
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/humanizing-the-world-of-work/202309/taking-another-look-at-prayer#:~:text=Prayer%20has%20both%20faith%2Dbased%20and%20scientific%20components,-Prayer%20is%20faith&text=It%20increases%20psychological%20perspective%2C%20which%20improves%20emotional%20management%20of%20personal%20problems.
"The saying in Latin, laborare est orare, which literally means "to work is to pray," suggests that as you work hard, you are also praying to succeed. Prayer is more of a spiritual exercise for a supernatural intervention."
"However, prayer also has a scientific component. It increases psychological perspective, which improves emotional management of personal problems."
"A top neurosurgeon shared his story. Before he starts brain surgery on a patient, he first acknowledges his limited knowledge as a human being and asks for a higher power to guide him to a successful surgery."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/humanizing-the-world-of-work/202309/taking-another-look-at-prayer#:~:text=Prayer%20has%20both%20faith%2Dbased%20and%20scientific%20components,-Prayer%20is%20faith&text=It%20increases%20psychological%20perspective%2C%20which%20improves%20emotional%20management%20of%20personal%20problems.
"The saying in Latin, laborare est orare, which literally means "to work is to pray," suggests that as you work hard, you are also praying to succeed. Prayer is more of a spiritual exercise for a supernatural intervention."
"However, prayer also has a scientific component. It increases psychological perspective, which improves emotional management of personal problems."
"A top neurosurgeon shared his story. Before he starts brain surgery on a patient, he first acknowledges his limited knowledge as a human being and asks for a higher power to guide him to a successful surgery."
Article #1 (continued)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/enlightened-living/201007/the-science-psychology-and-metaphysics-prayer
Prayer, like meditation, influences our state of mind, which, in turn, influences our "state of body". It reduces the experience of anxiety, elevates a depressed mood, lowers blood pressure, stabilizes sleep patterns and impacts autonomic functions like digestion and breathing. Further, in influencing our state of body-mind, prayer and meditation also influence our thinking. This prompts a shift in the habits of the mind, and, subsequently, patterns of behavior. These changes, in turn and over time, induce changes in the brain, further influencing our subjective and objective experience of the world and how we participate in it.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/enlightened-living/201007/the-science-psychology-and-metaphysics-prayer
Prayer, like meditation, influences our state of mind, which, in turn, influences our "state of body". It reduces the experience of anxiety, elevates a depressed mood, lowers blood pressure, stabilizes sleep patterns and impacts autonomic functions like digestion and breathing. Further, in influencing our state of body-mind, prayer and meditation also influence our thinking. This prompts a shift in the habits of the mind, and, subsequently, patterns of behavior. These changes, in turn and over time, induce changes in the brain, further influencing our subjective and objective experience of the world and how we participate in it.
I did this when I was applying for something or updating my resume for the psych tech position. I'm not sure if I want to do behavioral health or community health right now. I've been at my current job for 15 months now that it is October, and I really endured a lot, including the incredibly slow passage of time leading up to a year. Now the time is going at a normal pace since I'm not gritting my teeth anymore, so I'm thinking why don't I just stay at my current position where I can build more time and create that comfort zone I have not had since high school and the first year of college. As I said, I'm not struggling through the experience now. So maybe I should just stay, which means I don't need to update my resume at this time.
Article 1
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/enlightened-living/201007/the-science-psychology-and-metaphysics-prayer
Notes from article:
An exploration into the subject reveals prayer to be a considerably more complex subject than the stereotypic image we tend to have of the ardent believer, fervorently casting forth pleas for help, forgiveness or some other momentarily pressing need. Prayer is not just a going out, but also a going in
The major Western traditions, such as Christianity, Judaism and Islam subscribe in large measure to the "out there" construct; so, God is primarily "prayed to". The mystic traditions associated with each of these larger traditions -- Gnosticism, Kabala and Sufism, respectively - lend the "in here" aspect to this particular container, resonating with the notion of the Self as divine.
No matter the form of prayer particular to a tradition, one type of prayer that is ubiquitous to all is the prayer of blessing. Again, speaking to the psychological aspect, blessing is when prayer - no matter its antecedent - moves from the egocentric (praying for me) to the ethnocentric (praying for you/us) and geocentric (praying for all of us). After all, one of the most ubiquitous terms - and blessings -- in the English language is "goodbye", which is shorthand for "God be with ye".
An interesting bit of science attached to this ethnocentric and geocentric evolution of prayer comes out of Duke University Medical Center, where a study found that, within a group of 150 cardiac patients who received alternative post-operative therapy treatment, the sub-group who also received intercessory prayer (they were prayed for) had the highest success rate within the entire cohort.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/enlightened-living/201007/the-science-psychology-and-metaphysics-prayer
Notes from article:
An exploration into the subject reveals prayer to be a considerably more complex subject than the stereotypic image we tend to have of the ardent believer, fervorently casting forth pleas for help, forgiveness or some other momentarily pressing need. Prayer is not just a going out, but also a going in
The major Western traditions, such as Christianity, Judaism and Islam subscribe in large measure to the "out there" construct; so, God is primarily "prayed to". The mystic traditions associated with each of these larger traditions -- Gnosticism, Kabala and Sufism, respectively - lend the "in here" aspect to this particular container, resonating with the notion of the Self as divine.
No matter the form of prayer particular to a tradition, one type of prayer that is ubiquitous to all is the prayer of blessing. Again, speaking to the psychological aspect, blessing is when prayer - no matter its antecedent - moves from the egocentric (praying for me) to the ethnocentric (praying for you/us) and geocentric (praying for all of us). After all, one of the most ubiquitous terms - and blessings -- in the English language is "goodbye", which is shorthand for "God be with ye".
An interesting bit of science attached to this ethnocentric and geocentric evolution of prayer comes out of Duke University Medical Center, where a study found that, within a group of 150 cardiac patients who received alternative post-operative therapy treatment, the sub-group who also received intercessory prayer (they were prayed for) had the highest success rate within the entire cohort.
I think when I created this goal, I was thinking of a physical work of art. But as a frugal minimalist, I don't decorate aside from plants BUT I realized today that I've worked many quotes into works of art. Case in point👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾
Yay, finally working on this quirky, little bucketlist item.
I am def more of a rom-com person, yet here I am embarking on a mission impossible: watching every James Bond film. My friend, a true Bond fanatic, used to rush to the theater for every new release, then go back and pay to watch it again. Inspired by her dedication, I'm diving into the world of espionage, gadgets...
I've seen bits and pieces of these movies here and there, but this is my first real attempt at experiencing one of these movies. I'm starting with 'Skyfall,' and I will def not be glued to the screen. I'll be on my computer with my kindle here too. So I doubt I'll grasp all the intricate details.
This is Day Zero, the beginning of an unlikely journey. Wish me luck!
***
(AI Image prompt: create an image of a black woman with coiled 4chair watching an action movie in her bohemian soul inspired apartment)
I am def more of a rom-com person, yet here I am embarking on a mission impossible: watching every James Bond film. My friend, a true Bond fanatic, used to rush to the theater for every new release, then go back and pay to watch it again. Inspired by her dedication, I'm diving into the world of espionage, gadgets...
I've seen bits and pieces of these movies here and there, but this is my first real attempt at experiencing one of these movies. I'm starting with 'Skyfall,' and I will def not be glued to the screen. I'll be on my computer with my kindle here too. So I doubt I'll grasp all the intricate details.
This is Day Zero, the beginning of an unlikely journey. Wish me luck!
***
(AI Image prompt: create an image of a black woman with coiled 4chair watching an action movie in her bohemian soul inspired apartment)
Oh shoot I completely missed this anniversary!!!
Then again, this month I think being a Frugalista, or at least "lifestyle" was on my mind as I created a new Lifestyle Playlist on youtube.
Then again, this month I think being a Frugalista, or at least "lifestyle" was on my mind as I created a new Lifestyle Playlist on youtube.
I moved this temporary habit into the archive on Habitify. So Done!
Walked through the celebration on Saturday June 15. Next year I'm going to get a chair and stake out a spot.
I took the bus/train into DC on a whim. I just woke up and went yesterday, as I had to start a training today.
It cost $12. I was shocked as to go anywhere in NYC was $2.75, so under $6 round trip.
But hobbies cost money, right? And I've been here for over a year, so I owe myself some trips into the city.
It cost $12. I was shocked as to go anywhere in NYC was $2.75, so under $6 round trip.
But hobbies cost money, right? And I've been here for over a year, so I owe myself some trips into the city.
I went to this event last night. These events are literally across the street from me, so there is no excuse.
From the description:
House Music on the Lawn with DJ Divine
Jun 08, 2024, 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Picture this: the sun setting in a blaze of colors, a gentle breeze whispering through the trees, and the sound of music filling the air. It's the perfect backdrop for an unforgettable summer soirée!
I put the above description with a few other details into Pica AI image generator and got several nice images, but the the hands on some of the people were messed up. I can keep this pic and crop so only one of her hands is showing.
From the description:
House Music on the Lawn with DJ Divine
Jun 08, 2024, 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Picture this: the sun setting in a blaze of colors, a gentle breeze whispering through the trees, and the sound of music filling the air. It's the perfect backdrop for an unforgettable summer soirée!
I put the above description with a few other details into Pica AI image generator and got several nice images, but the the hands on some of the people were messed up. I can keep this pic and crop so only one of her hands is showing.
I have been working with my Habits, I am behind right now, but in the last month, I'd say I only didn't look at the list at all, maybe for one day.
What I want to do is to record some of the things I do on there as accomplishments and goals reached here. I finally categorized my habits a few days ago and I marked that down as a "Done" goal on here.
What I want to do is to record some of the things I do on there as accomplishments and goals reached here. I finally categorized my habits a few days ago and I marked that down as a "Done" goal on here.
Photo added to goal List 10 things you want from this internship and pray over those things
I put this goal into WriteCream's AI and this is the image it generated. I like it🥰
Note added to goal List 10 things you want from this internship and pray over those things
The scriptures for this are:
Isaiah 58:8
Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you, and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard
Psalms 37:24
Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand.
I Corinthians 15:58
Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.
Isaiah 40:31
But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Philippians 4:6
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
Matthew 19:26
But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.
James 5:16
Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
Psalms 37:3
Trust in the LORD and do good. Then you will live safely in the land and prosper.
Psalms 37:4
Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Mark 11:23
Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, 'Be taken up and thrown into the sea,' and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him.
Isaiah 54:17
No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from Me," Says the Lord.
1 Corinthians 10:13
God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your ability, but with the testing he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
"As you continue to focus on what you want and take steps to align your work with your intentions, you may find that your mindset begins to shift and you feel more fulfilled and empowered in your role."--ChatGPt
Dear God, I am praying for these things in my work-life:
1) I want the testing to conclude so that I am standing on a solid foundation (1 Peter 5:10) lacking nothing (James 1:2-4). Please allow me to have a job and peace of mind at the same time for these last two decades of my career.
2)I want to be able to use the coping strategies that got me through other jobs ie going to the bathroom first thing in the morning and peppermint tea (ED). Saying to myself: "I only have to make it through the next 4 hours and I can do *anything* for 4 hours" (SH) Having a life outside of work ie my pleasant walks from 34th street to the Village (GHI).
In the name of Jesus, I pray. Amen
Isaiah 58:8
Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you, and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard
Psalms 37:24
Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand.
I Corinthians 15:58
Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.
Isaiah 40:31
But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Philippians 4:6
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
Matthew 19:26
But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.
James 5:16
Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
Psalms 37:3
Trust in the LORD and do good. Then you will live safely in the land and prosper.
Psalms 37:4
Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Mark 11:23
Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, 'Be taken up and thrown into the sea,' and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him.
Isaiah 54:17
No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from Me," Says the Lord.
1 Corinthians 10:13
God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your ability, but with the testing he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
"As you continue to focus on what you want and take steps to align your work with your intentions, you may find that your mindset begins to shift and you feel more fulfilled and empowered in your role."--ChatGPt
Dear God, I am praying for these things in my work-life:
1) I want the testing to conclude so that I am standing on a solid foundation (1 Peter 5:10) lacking nothing (James 1:2-4). Please allow me to have a job and peace of mind at the same time for these last two decades of my career.
2)I want to be able to use the coping strategies that got me through other jobs ie going to the bathroom first thing in the morning and peppermint tea (ED). Saying to myself: "I only have to make it through the next 4 hours and I can do *anything* for 4 hours" (SH) Having a life outside of work ie my pleasant walks from 34th street to the Village (GHI).
In the name of Jesus, I pray. Amen
Photo added to goal List 10 things you want from current job and pray over those things
I skipped listening to this list yesterday and on May 11, so I'm listening to it three times in a row right now.
Also today I'm going to archive this Habit on Habitiy and put together a new one for the internship which I applied to yesterday. YAY!
Actually, I'm not going to archive it. I'm going to reduce it from every day to once a month and create a new one for the internship to look at every day.
As of today 5/18/24, I've gone over this list 87 times.
Also today I'm going to archive this Habit on Habitiy and put together a new one for the internship which I applied to yesterday. YAY!
Actually, I'm not going to archive it. I'm going to reduce it from every day to once a month and create a new one for the internship to look at every day.
As of today 5/18/24, I've gone over this list 87 times.
I just started this class last night. I signed up for a free class through the local Worksource last year. You have a few weeks to access a class before they inactivate the license. I was focused on the CNA classes, so my license lapsed.
I simply sent an email asking if the license could be restated and it was done a few hours later.
So grateful for the things in life that *do* go well.
I simply sent an email asking if the license could be restated and it was done a few hours later.
So grateful for the things in life that *do* go well.
I have been coming here to Dayzero every day looking at my 10 Things I want in my job list, but I don't always write a note. I just earned a badge for posting every month. That will be my goal from now on. I will make it a point to post at least once a month. In fact. I will put that on my Habit list on Habitify.
Visit the MUSEUM OF ILLUSIONS in DC
As of today 2/27/24, I have 49 scriptures that I study daily on Quizlet. YAY!💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
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Note added to goal List 10 things you want from current job and pray over those things
The scriptures for this are:
Isaiah 58:8
Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you, and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard
Psalms 37:24
Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand.
I Corinthians 15:58
Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.
Isaiah 40:31
But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Philippians 4:6
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
Matthew 19:26
But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.
James 5:16
Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
Psalms 37:3
Trust in the LORD and do good. Then you will live safely in the land and prosper.
Psalms 37:4
Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Mark 11:23
Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, 'Be taken up and thrown into the sea,' and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him.
Isaiah 54:17
No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from Me," Says the Lord.
1 Corinthians 10:13
God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your ability, but with the testing he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
"As you continue to focus on what you want and take steps to align your work with your intentions, you may find that your mindset begins to shift and you feel more fulfilled and empowered in your role."--ChatGPt
Dear God I am asking you to make these things a reality in my life.
1. I want my job to be easy even tho it is hard work. I want it to be easily doable hard work.
2. I want to be able to easily complete all tasks in the time allocated.
3. I want to plan all days off in advance so I have perfect attendance.
4. I want to make money
5. I want to learn things every single day that I can use the very next day on the job and increase skill level.
6: I want to wear scrubs every day.
7. I want a flexible schedule/be able to take off a month if I want/need to.
8. I want to be able to keep my administrative skills *sharp* while I work this job (I can do this via another job and/or community involvement and/or my writing)
9. I want to enjoy the passage of time. Right now as I type this, it's the end of February. YAY!
10. I want stability and predictability.
11. I want to enjoy my time off immensely.
12. I want to enjoy the free meals, concerts and activities
13. I want a pleasant and peaceful commute.
14. I want to enjoy the fact that there are alot of available hours to work and alot of job openings in this field, and a low bar to entry--which is what I always wanted in a job.
15. I want all of the above--the skills/confidence etc, then what the other CPs say about me will not matter so much.
16. I want this job to be a metaphor for the k-12 experience, the last time I felt truly successful.
17. I want this job to take away the pressure to write/publish more than I can or want to in a given year.
18. I want to work with different people, so the turnover there is good for me as long as *I* stay.
19. I want this job to be an example of God's healing powers in my life. I have experienced physical discomfort 3 times and healed all three times while not taking off. I want to pray for continued physical, spiritual, mental and emotional health. Note: I also experienced God's healing power with emotional/mental discomfort after working 3/3/24.
20. I want this job to offer me the financial freedom to buy/treat myself to small things like fun AI writing programs, expensive aluminum free body deodorants, hair care products that help grow long 4c hair, and later on local trips.
21. I want this job to be an opportunity to leave the job on the job unlike with some administrative jobs with ongoing projects that cause me to worry about completion when I am at home.
22. I want this job to be an opportunity to learn how to instead of writing long letters as I did with NY and CS, to solve a problem by asking one simple question as I did yesterday, 3/4/24.
23. I want this job to give me the freedom to spend time taking care of and growing my long 4c hair.
24) I want to make sure I am prepared for each shift. Clean, rested, hair in a bun and *prayed up*
25) I want to feel a sense of relief when the work is done for the day--either at the end of the shift or when everyone is in bed.
26) I want to not have to worry about getting references, which I don't have to worry about as long as I have this job.
27) I want to have a clear vision and pray over the potential next steps. For the job I have now as of 3/21/24, the next step "up" would be med tech.
28) I want to be able to practice patience as I stay in my current role for now as of 3/21/24 while I use every challenge I face to serve as instructions for when I reach the next level.
29) I want to maintain the serenity I was unable to maintain in my youth when I would leave jobs after 10 months.
30)I want to be as confident and fearless at work as I am in the classroom. While I can be confident, I know I will not be perfect. I was a good, enthusiastic student, but not a perfect one.
31. I want my musculoskeletal system to stay in pristine good health.
32. I want to know beyond the shadow of a doubt that I bring valuable skills and insights to my work every day, regardless of how "new" or "inexperienced" I may feel.
33. I want the testing to conclude so that I am standing on a solid foundation (1 Peter 5:10) lacking nothing (James 1:2-4)
In the name of Jesus, I pray.
Amen.
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Isaiah 58:8
Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you, and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard
Psalms 37:24
Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand.
I Corinthians 15:58
Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.
Isaiah 40:31
But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Philippians 4:6
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
Matthew 19:26
But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.
James 5:16
Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
Psalms 37:3
Trust in the LORD and do good. Then you will live safely in the land and prosper.
Psalms 37:4
Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Mark 11:23
Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, 'Be taken up and thrown into the sea,' and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him.
Isaiah 54:17
No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from Me," Says the Lord.
1 Corinthians 10:13
God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your ability, but with the testing he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
"As you continue to focus on what you want and take steps to align your work with your intentions, you may find that your mindset begins to shift and you feel more fulfilled and empowered in your role."--ChatGPt
Dear God I am asking you to make these things a reality in my life.
1. I want my job to be easy even tho it is hard work. I want it to be easily doable hard work.
2. I want to be able to easily complete all tasks in the time allocated.
3. I want to plan all days off in advance so I have perfect attendance.
4. I want to make money
5. I want to learn things every single day that I can use the very next day on the job and increase skill level.
6: I want to wear scrubs every day.
7. I want a flexible schedule/be able to take off a month if I want/need to.
8. I want to be able to keep my administrative skills *sharp* while I work this job (I can do this via another job and/or community involvement and/or my writing)
9. I want to enjoy the passage of time. Right now as I type this, it's the end of February. YAY!
10. I want stability and predictability.
11. I want to enjoy my time off immensely.
12. I want to enjoy the free meals, concerts and activities
13. I want a pleasant and peaceful commute.
14. I want to enjoy the fact that there are alot of available hours to work and alot of job openings in this field, and a low bar to entry--which is what I always wanted in a job.
15. I want all of the above--the skills/confidence etc, then what the other CPs say about me will not matter so much.
16. I want this job to be a metaphor for the k-12 experience, the last time I felt truly successful.
17. I want this job to take away the pressure to write/publish more than I can or want to in a given year.
18. I want to work with different people, so the turnover there is good for me as long as *I* stay.
19. I want this job to be an example of God's healing powers in my life. I have experienced physical discomfort 3 times and healed all three times while not taking off. I want to pray for continued physical, spiritual, mental and emotional health. Note: I also experienced God's healing power with emotional/mental discomfort after working 3/3/24.
20. I want this job to offer me the financial freedom to buy/treat myself to small things like fun AI writing programs, expensive aluminum free body deodorants, hair care products that help grow long 4c hair, and later on local trips.
21. I want this job to be an opportunity to leave the job on the job unlike with some administrative jobs with ongoing projects that cause me to worry about completion when I am at home.
22. I want this job to be an opportunity to learn how to instead of writing long letters as I did with NY and CS, to solve a problem by asking one simple question as I did yesterday, 3/4/24.
23. I want this job to give me the freedom to spend time taking care of and growing my long 4c hair.
24) I want to make sure I am prepared for each shift. Clean, rested, hair in a bun and *prayed up*
25) I want to feel a sense of relief when the work is done for the day--either at the end of the shift or when everyone is in bed.
26) I want to not have to worry about getting references, which I don't have to worry about as long as I have this job.
27) I want to have a clear vision and pray over the potential next steps. For the job I have now as of 3/21/24, the next step "up" would be med tech.
28) I want to be able to practice patience as I stay in my current role for now as of 3/21/24 while I use every challenge I face to serve as instructions for when I reach the next level.
29) I want to maintain the serenity I was unable to maintain in my youth when I would leave jobs after 10 months.
30)I want to be as confident and fearless at work as I am in the classroom. While I can be confident, I know I will not be perfect. I was a good, enthusiastic student, but not a perfect one.
31. I want my musculoskeletal system to stay in pristine good health.
32. I want to know beyond the shadow of a doubt that I bring valuable skills and insights to my work every day, regardless of how "new" or "inexperienced" I may feel.
33. I want the testing to conclude so that I am standing on a solid foundation (1 Peter 5:10) lacking nothing (James 1:2-4)
In the name of Jesus, I pray.
Amen.
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I've considered this and decided against it.
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It is 11/30/23 and I have not thought about this one in awhile when I used to think about it daily. Volunteering at the hospital still seems plausible, but I'm not sure about this one. I'll keep it on here while I wait and see.
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I came back a day later today to test the experiment I tried yesterday or the day before. I accidentally posted the same post four times. I wanted to delete three of the posts, but did not see a way to do it.
Then i posted again and noticed something interesting. When I initially post and hit submit, the post is able to be edited/deleted. And I noticed that the URL had a number. So I just subtracted one and lo and behold the last post I did came up, then I kept subtracting one until I was able to delete all of the duplicate posts. This probably makes NO sense whatsoever. But I'm glad I discovered how to always have the ability to delete or edit what I write here. YAY!. And I need to know this just in case I write something and I'm horrified about it later. I want to be able to delete/and or edit posts.
https://dayzeroproject.com/user/Blossom123/post/419789
Then i posted again and noticed something interesting. When I initially post and hit submit, the post is able to be edited/deleted. And I noticed that the URL had a number. So I just subtracted one and lo and behold the last post I did came up, then I kept subtracting one until I was able to delete all of the duplicate posts. This probably makes NO sense whatsoever. But I'm glad I discovered how to always have the ability to delete or edit what I write here. YAY!. And I need to know this just in case I write something and I'm horrified about it later. I want to be able to delete/and or edit posts.
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I just realized something real important--after 2 years on this DayZero, you can't easily delete notes. I accidentally posted the same note 4 times under a goal. It was a new goal, so I deleted the goal thinking the notes would go too. They didn't.
Here's how I was able to delete the duplicate notes. I posted a new note, saw the URL, then went back to it and subtracted one from the end number, that took me to the last note I posted prior to the current one. Then I did the same thing four times until all of the notes were deleted. But if I wanted to delete something from last year, I'd be out of luck. Even if I delete the entire goal, the notes will remain. Yikes
So here is the fix. I will always copy and past the URL to the editable note every time I post. Here it is for this one. Just in case I want to change something or delete later.
https://dayzeroproject.com/user/Blossom123/post/419770
Here's how I was able to delete the duplicate notes. I posted a new note, saw the URL, then went back to it and subtracted one from the end number, that took me to the last note I posted prior to the current one. Then I did the same thing four times until all of the notes were deleted. But if I wanted to delete something from last year, I'd be out of luck. Even if I delete the entire goal, the notes will remain. Yikes
So here is the fix. I will always copy and past the URL to the editable note every time I post. Here it is for this one. Just in case I want to change something or delete later.
https://dayzeroproject.com/user/Blossom123/post/419770
I did it! I started working for SH November 2019 after three weeks of training. As of Nov 20, 2023, I went into work at TBH. Still going strong four years later. Diff company but same field.
testing. testing. testing.
Note added to goal See at least 3 BlackRock Center for the Arts Center Performances in 2023
Testing to see if this shows up.
Note added to goal See at least 3 BlackRock Center for the Arts Center Performances in 2023
I had trouble connecting notes about this goal to the goal. Let's see if this one shows up.
I just realized something very important. It *matters* where you add your note in order for it to show up under the goal. I kept writing notes for another goal about attending three concerts. As I updated, the notes would show up in my note log, but not under the Goal, tho it was tagged under the goal.
I have to be careful from now on as I want to be able to see all of my entries under each goal.
I have to be careful from now on as I want to be able to see all of my entries under each goal.
testing to see if this shows up.
I just made this concoction--peppermint tea/sleepytime tea, one bag each and two cups of water. I then fille da mug up half way with the tea. Then the other half with almond milk and orange juice, then I blended it. It was delicioius. I went out and bought a huge 16 ounce mug.
Came home and added another tea bag to the two and the remining water, added more water. Made the tea then added only a dash of almond milk and orange juice. That was pretty good but not as good when the tea is not so strong and I have one half tea and the other half almond milk and orange juice.
In any case I will continue to work with and perfect this recipe. It's better than hot chocolate, which I have not had in years. The only kind of hot chocolate I want is from Dunkin Donuts as I don't like that packaged stuff.
I can see myself possibly getting that healthy replacement for chocolate, cao cao (?) or something to put into the tea tho to flavor it a bit. I can also just use unsweetened almond milk, boil it and put the tea bags in there and then blend that. Then add my splash of orange juice. YUMMMY.
Came home and added another tea bag to the two and the remining water, added more water. Made the tea then added only a dash of almond milk and orange juice. That was pretty good but not as good when the tea is not so strong and I have one half tea and the other half almond milk and orange juice.
In any case I will continue to work with and perfect this recipe. It's better than hot chocolate, which I have not had in years. The only kind of hot chocolate I want is from Dunkin Donuts as I don't like that packaged stuff.
I can see myself possibly getting that healthy replacement for chocolate, cao cao (?) or something to put into the tea tho to flavor it a bit. I can also just use unsweetened almond milk, boil it and put the tea bags in there and then blend that. Then add my splash of orange juice. YUMMMY.
Note added to goal Read a Kindle Unlimited book from three authors mentioned in this article
Here is the article:
Indie Romance Books Are Big Business, But Why Aren't We Hearing About It?
Self-published writers are a large part of publishing's billion dollar romance industry, but they still don't get the credit they deserve. Here's why that needs to change.
https://www.shondaland.com/inspire/books/a34047527/indie-romance-is-big-business-why-arent-we-hearing-about-it/
Indie Romance Books Are Big Business, But Why Aren't We Hearing About It?
Self-published writers are a large part of publishing's billion dollar romance industry, but they still don't get the credit they deserve. Here's why that needs to change.
https://www.shondaland.com/inspire/books/a34047527/indie-romance-is-big-business-why-arent-we-hearing-about-it/
As of 9/24/23. Also I'm studying these scriptures on Quizlet.
Promises:
Jeremiah 29:11--hope and a future
Isaiah 58:8 --light will break through like the dawn
Philippians 1:6-Good work will be completed
Philippians 4:19--God will meet all your needs
Matthew 17:20--With even a small amount of faith, you can move mountains
Psalm 32:8--God will instsruct, teach and counsel
Romans 8:28--All things work together for good, for those who are called according to hs purpose
2 Corinthians 12:9-10--When we are weak, God’s power is made perfect.
Isaiah 40:31--Soar on wings like eagles; run and not grow weary; walk and not faint
Psalm 62:5 Hope comes from God.
Matthew 19:26 With God all things are possible.
James 5:16 The fervent prayer of a righteous man, availeth much
Pslams 37:4 Delight in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Protection from the enemy:
Isaiah 54:17--No weapon formed against me shall prosper
Isaiah 41:10-God will uphold me with his righteous right hand
Psalm 5:12--God’s favor surrounds me like a shield
I John 5:18--I am born of God; the enemy can’t touch me
Gifts from God:
Timothy 1:7 God Gave us a spirit of power, love and self control
Romans 12:3--We all have been given an amount of faith
Instructions:
1Thessalonians 5:17 Pray without ceasing.
1 Thesalonians 5:18--Give thanks
1 Corinthians 15:58--Stand firm
Psalm 62:5--Rest in God
Luke 16:10--Be honest with what you’ve been entrusted with
Philippians 4:8-9--Focus on what is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable
2 Corinthians 10:5--Take captive every thought
Proverbs 3:6--Acknowledge him in all your ways
Proverbs 24:16 Never quit, even when you fail
Phillipians 4:6 Do not be anxious. Pray, petition and give thanks.
Philippians 4:9 What you have learned, received and heard, practice these things.
Psalms 37:3 Trust in the Lord, you will be safe and prosper
Promises:
Jeremiah 29:11--hope and a future
Isaiah 58:8 --light will break through like the dawn
Philippians 1:6-Good work will be completed
Philippians 4:19--God will meet all your needs
Matthew 17:20--With even a small amount of faith, you can move mountains
Psalm 32:8--God will instsruct, teach and counsel
Romans 8:28--All things work together for good, for those who are called according to hs purpose
2 Corinthians 12:9-10--When we are weak, God’s power is made perfect.
Isaiah 40:31--Soar on wings like eagles; run and not grow weary; walk and not faint
Psalm 62:5 Hope comes from God.
Matthew 19:26 With God all things are possible.
James 5:16 The fervent prayer of a righteous man, availeth much
Pslams 37:4 Delight in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Protection from the enemy:
Isaiah 54:17--No weapon formed against me shall prosper
Isaiah 41:10-God will uphold me with his righteous right hand
Psalm 5:12--God’s favor surrounds me like a shield
I John 5:18--I am born of God; the enemy can’t touch me
Gifts from God:
Timothy 1:7 God Gave us a spirit of power, love and self control
Romans 12:3--We all have been given an amount of faith
Instructions:
1Thessalonians 5:17 Pray without ceasing.
1 Thesalonians 5:18--Give thanks
1 Corinthians 15:58--Stand firm
Psalm 62:5--Rest in God
Luke 16:10--Be honest with what you’ve been entrusted with
Philippians 4:8-9--Focus on what is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable
2 Corinthians 10:5--Take captive every thought
Proverbs 3:6--Acknowledge him in all your ways
Proverbs 24:16 Never quit, even when you fail
Phillipians 4:6 Do not be anxious. Pray, petition and give thanks.
Philippians 4:9 What you have learned, received and heard, practice these things.
Psalms 37:3 Trust in the Lord, you will be safe and prosper
Note added to goal In August 2023 finally re-read & outline novel I wrote circa 2005
I started reading and outlining my novel EOY Sunday, December 26, 2021 and finished Sunday, August 27, 2023
From TimeandDate.com:
Result: 609 days
Or 1 year, 8 months
Or 20 months
From TimeandDate.com:
Result: 609 days
Or 1 year, 8 months
Or 20 months
I started reading and outlining my novel EOY Sunday, December 26, 2021 and finished Sunday, August 27, 2023
From TimeandDate.com:
Result: 609 days
Or 1 year, 8 months
Or 20 months
From TimeandDate.com:
Result: 609 days
Or 1 year, 8 months
Or 20 months
I'm considering this as "done." Only certain 98 buses go there. I tried to go on a rainy day in August and the 98 bus that I got on didn't go there. I want my entertainment to be readily accessible ie Rio, Rockville etc.
Note added to goal See at least 3 BlackRock Center for the Arts Center Performances
I happened up on the concert I mention in the post above circa July. Then a few nights ago I went to a classic hip hop dance party in front of Black Rock and prior to that in June, they had a Juneteenth celebration where we stopped by. So counting this as done. done. done!!!
8/5/23
Wonderful reminder of See You Later Procrastinator, a cute little book I read a long time ago--5/11/2009 12:05:39 AM. Here's an excerpt of my review.
We all have our reasons for putting things off. The authors of See You Later, Procrastinator suggests that readers do an investigation to figure out why they procrastinate.
Reasons vary from having too much on your plate to having a project that seems too difficult. For every reason, Espeland and Verdick provide a Procrastinator Buster or (PB). Some people find themselves procrastinating because they are afraid to fail. The PB or antidote to fighting fear induced procrastination is to find a role model. Thomas Edison is an example of someone who failed many times before finally inventing the light bulb. “I have not failed,” Edison once said. “I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”
I chuckled when I read the PB for when you procrastinate due to indecision. The authors suggest tossing a coin, doing eeny-meeny-miney-mo, or pulling to-do items from a hat. When compared to the wrenching decision making process I usually employ in an effort to avoid mistakes, this sounds much more enjoyable. If the decision is not life altering then why not? In fact the next time I’m stumped, I may try this technique myself.
Wonderful reminder of See You Later Procrastinator, a cute little book I read a long time ago--5/11/2009 12:05:39 AM. Here's an excerpt of my review.
We all have our reasons for putting things off. The authors of See You Later, Procrastinator suggests that readers do an investigation to figure out why they procrastinate.
Reasons vary from having too much on your plate to having a project that seems too difficult. For every reason, Espeland and Verdick provide a Procrastinator Buster or (PB). Some people find themselves procrastinating because they are afraid to fail. The PB or antidote to fighting fear induced procrastination is to find a role model. Thomas Edison is an example of someone who failed many times before finally inventing the light bulb. “I have not failed,” Edison once said. “I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”
I chuckled when I read the PB for when you procrastinate due to indecision. The authors suggest tossing a coin, doing eeny-meeny-miney-mo, or pulling to-do items from a hat. When compared to the wrenching decision making process I usually employ in an effort to avoid mistakes, this sounds much more enjoyable. If the decision is not life altering then why not? In fact the next time I’m stumped, I may try this technique myself.
A light rain was falling, but not hard enough where I needed to close the window next to where I was sitting. It was a beautiful late spring morning and the wind blew just a little billowing the no-sew curtains I’d made myself a few weeks prior. I was having a smoothie made from at least four or five different vegetables and fruits. When I make a smoothie I don’t use recipes so it’s hit or miss. That day the combination I chose worked and the drink was absolutely delicious. As I sipped I listened to the playlist I’ve been building on Spotify.
The rain, the wind, the music all came together into one perfect moment. Absolutely perfect. Over my 43 years of life I’m certain I’ve experienced dozens of perfect moments. Many of them came and went without my realizing. Now I know better. I savored every second until the smoothie was finished and it was time to start my day. During the day I thought back on the morning fondly recalling the details.
The rain, the wind, the music all came together into one perfect moment. Absolutely perfect. Over my 43 years of life I’m certain I’ve experienced dozens of perfect moments. Many of them came and went without my realizing. Now I know better. I savored every second until the smoothie was finished and it was time to start my day. During the day I thought back on the morning fondly recalling the details.
8/4/23
Below is from something I wrote in 7/8/13. And I still embrace this concept. I went to an arts festival in May and sloshed through the streets in the rain to a podiatrist appointment in June. Both are great memories.
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A light rain was falling, but not hard enough where I needed to close the window next to where I was sitting. It was a beautiful late spring morning and the wind blew just a little billowing the no-sew curtains I’d made myself a few weeks prior. I was having a smoothie made from at least four or five different vegetables and fruits. When I make a smoothie I don’t use recipes so it’s hit or miss. That day the combination I chose worked and the drink was absolutely delicious. As I sipped I listened to the playlist I’ve been building on Spotify.
The rain, the wind, the music all came together into one perfect moment. Absolutely perfect. Over my 43 years of life I’m certain I’ve experienced dozens of perfect moments. Many of them came and went without my realizing. Now I know better. I savored every second until the smoothie was finished and it was time to start my day. During the day I thought back on the morning fondly recalling the details.
Below is from something I wrote in 7/8/13. And I still embrace this concept. I went to an arts festival in May and sloshed through the streets in the rain to a podiatrist appointment in June. Both are great memories.
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A light rain was falling, but not hard enough where I needed to close the window next to where I was sitting. It was a beautiful late spring morning and the wind blew just a little billowing the no-sew curtains I’d made myself a few weeks prior. I was having a smoothie made from at least four or five different vegetables and fruits. When I make a smoothie I don’t use recipes so it’s hit or miss. That day the combination I chose worked and the drink was absolutely delicious. As I sipped I listened to the playlist I’ve been building on Spotify.
The rain, the wind, the music all came together into one perfect moment. Absolutely perfect. Over my 43 years of life I’m certain I’ve experienced dozens of perfect moments. Many of them came and went without my realizing. Now I know better. I savored every second until the smoothie was finished and it was time to start my day. During the day I thought back on the morning fondly recalling the details.
Today I watched Nantucket Noel (2021) and it had all of the usual tropes. Big developer threatens to revitalize beloved local treasure, but Nantucket Noel had a twist. All of the local business owners were okay with moving to a modernized location, especially when they were enticed with a bonus. Everyone except for our plucky heroine that is, who wanted to save the toy store her mother opened when she was seven years old, 25 years ago. Another element that made this story different is that the hero's father was the bad guy. Actually that was also true in the last Hallmark Christmas movie I watched, "Let it Snow." The heroine's dad was the bad guy, but she agreed with him until she saw the charm of the local winter town.
Anyway, with Nantucket Noel, the hero was following his father's orders, but also sympathized with the heroine. The hero had a daughter (Thankfully the mother was alive--they love having widowers raising daughters in these movies) who bonded realistically with the heroine.
The romance blossomed naturally with the usual tropes of walks to special "I want to show you something" places. In this case, it was the beach. There were smores while bonding over the fire--of course!
Tropes galore--charming little town, close knit group of friends who know the heroine is falling in love while she is still oblivious. Local traditions--the Snow Ball, A Gingerbread Construction Contest (or something like that), and because this was a port town, a Christmas Boat parade. All of these activities of course are derived for the hardworking executive--in this case the hero and the local person--our heroine, can constantly bump into each other. Oh and while in this case the hero was a workaholic, and while he did fall in love with the heroine, there was no need to tranform him into a cheerleader, or advocate for the town, which was refreshing.
Chock full of the usual Hallmark movie tropes, but kept my attention throughout. I'll give it 5 stars.
Anyway, with Nantucket Noel, the hero was following his father's orders, but also sympathized with the heroine. The hero had a daughter (Thankfully the mother was alive--they love having widowers raising daughters in these movies) who bonded realistically with the heroine.
The romance blossomed naturally with the usual tropes of walks to special "I want to show you something" places. In this case, it was the beach. There were smores while bonding over the fire--of course!
Tropes galore--charming little town, close knit group of friends who know the heroine is falling in love while she is still oblivious. Local traditions--the Snow Ball, A Gingerbread Construction Contest (or something like that), and because this was a port town, a Christmas Boat parade. All of these activities of course are derived for the hardworking executive--in this case the hero and the local person--our heroine, can constantly bump into each other. Oh and while in this case the hero was a workaholic, and while he did fall in love with the heroine, there was no need to tranform him into a cheerleader, or advocate for the town, which was refreshing.
Chock full of the usual Hallmark movie tropes, but kept my attention throughout. I'll give it 5 stars.
7/23/23
"weaving conversations is a type of art..."
From something I wrote: 5/28/2007
"I never would have recognized that weaving conversations is a type of art when I was an artist or an art student. Each person is very unique and few of us hear that we are appreciated for that. That type of creative thinking is something that comes from a deep reservoir of creativity. People need to hear their strengths from others - for just being themselves. That's the benefit bonus I bring to my client's. Holding these transformative conversations is quite an art, as lives are newly 'painted' with 'new changes coming' signs."--Coach Fran Miller
"weaving conversations is a type of art..."
From something I wrote: 5/28/2007
"I never would have recognized that weaving conversations is a type of art when I was an artist or an art student. Each person is very unique and few of us hear that we are appreciated for that. That type of creative thinking is something that comes from a deep reservoir of creativity. People need to hear their strengths from others - for just being themselves. That's the benefit bonus I bring to my client's. Holding these transformative conversations is quite an art, as lives are newly 'painted' with 'new changes coming' signs."--Coach Fran Miller
Today I watched "Let it Snow." It was okay, typical. The focused CEO is sent to the business to shut it down, but instead fights to keep the business--and all the traditions etc alive. I'll give it 5 stars on IMDB.
Oh wait a minute. I already rated this some other time and gave it 4 stars. Most likely because it followed the trope to the letter and added nothing more.
Oh wait a minute. I already rated this some other time and gave it 4 stars. Most likely because it followed the trope to the letter and added nothing more.
7/17/23
From something I wrote in 7/14/2008
"My personal formula is to devote at least 10 minutes every day to writing without fail. I say 10 minutes because it eliminates excuses. Everybody and I mean everybody has 10 free minutes a day. "
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...For example I had a goal to write a weekly column since I wrote my first personal experience essay in 1999, yet it took six years to find my way to my current home...
Weiner-Davis also says goals should be broken down into mini goals. Now this is the self-help trick of all tricks. People think that in order to accomplish something you have to give your entire life over to that one thing and if you can’t put 40-50 hours a week into it then there’s no need to pursue that goal. This is simply not true!
In Stop Worrying Make Money, Richard Carlson suggests readers set aside an hour a day for their goal. In The Ultimate Secrets of Total Self Confidence, Robert Anthony suggests devoting a half hour a day to a subject you’d like to master. My personal formula is to devote at least 10 minutes every day to writing without fail. I say 10 minutes because it eliminates excuses. Everybody and I mean everybody has 10 free minutes a day.
I know 10 mintues a day doesn’t sound like much, but that small amount adds up. The key is to put some time and effort into your goal daily. “Some say the hardest part about running is putting on your running shoes,” states Weiner-Davis “And even if you tell yourself that you don’t have to run too far that day, once you have your shoes on and you’re running, why stop?
From something I wrote in 7/14/2008
"My personal formula is to devote at least 10 minutes every day to writing without fail. I say 10 minutes because it eliminates excuses. Everybody and I mean everybody has 10 free minutes a day. "
***
...For example I had a goal to write a weekly column since I wrote my first personal experience essay in 1999, yet it took six years to find my way to my current home...
Weiner-Davis also says goals should be broken down into mini goals. Now this is the self-help trick of all tricks. People think that in order to accomplish something you have to give your entire life over to that one thing and if you can’t put 40-50 hours a week into it then there’s no need to pursue that goal. This is simply not true!
In Stop Worrying Make Money, Richard Carlson suggests readers set aside an hour a day for their goal. In The Ultimate Secrets of Total Self Confidence, Robert Anthony suggests devoting a half hour a day to a subject you’d like to master. My personal formula is to devote at least 10 minutes every day to writing without fail. I say 10 minutes because it eliminates excuses. Everybody and I mean everybody has 10 free minutes a day.
I know 10 mintues a day doesn’t sound like much, but that small amount adds up. The key is to put some time and effort into your goal daily. “Some say the hardest part about running is putting on your running shoes,” states Weiner-Davis “And even if you tell yourself that you don’t have to run too far that day, once you have your shoes on and you’re running, why stop?
7/16/23
This is not necessarily a list for life overall, but it's great criteria for making a decision about a job. I wrote this 3/14/2011.
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As we go through life it would behoove us to “certify” the activities we’re involved in, the people who are in our lives and our environment to determine whether or not these elements are actually working. And when new opportunities come along we should “pre-certify” them to ensure that they will be a good fit before we invest any time or energy...We can do this by making a criteria list. Below is a criteria list I am using to choose a career (aside from writing) to pursue.
1. I must be in a collegial, respectful environment that believes in and articulates their commitment to employee growth.
2. There must be a career path ie assistant, coordinator, manager etc. Or the trajectory could be monetary meaning that the title doesn’t change, but rather the salary goes up with years of experience.
3. Since I love to talk about work, there must be some sort of accompanying professional organization, association or meet-up group. Even an active group on Yahoo or LinkedIn would suffice.
4. If the position is an obscure one then it’s not for me. If I do a search on indeed.com, monster.com, idealist.org or a similar job search site and no jobs come up, then it’s not a career path I would pursue.
5. It must be a field where I can learn more about the industry on my own. Once I worked for a law firm for close to a year. Since I didn’t have any experience in the legal field, at first I felt lost. I immediately went to the library and found a book on the type of law the firm practiced and read it in a week. My comprehension then tripled. When I worked for a social service agency, I read a few books on getting grants and the same thing happened. I understood much more about what I was doing on the day to day.
6. As I am still raising my children, the area where I work must offer part-time, job-share or flex-time opportunities.
This is not necessarily a list for life overall, but it's great criteria for making a decision about a job. I wrote this 3/14/2011.
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As we go through life it would behoove us to “certify” the activities we’re involved in, the people who are in our lives and our environment to determine whether or not these elements are actually working. And when new opportunities come along we should “pre-certify” them to ensure that they will be a good fit before we invest any time or energy...We can do this by making a criteria list. Below is a criteria list I am using to choose a career (aside from writing) to pursue.
1. I must be in a collegial, respectful environment that believes in and articulates their commitment to employee growth.
2. There must be a career path ie assistant, coordinator, manager etc. Or the trajectory could be monetary meaning that the title doesn’t change, but rather the salary goes up with years of experience.
3. Since I love to talk about work, there must be some sort of accompanying professional organization, association or meet-up group. Even an active group on Yahoo or LinkedIn would suffice.
4. If the position is an obscure one then it’s not for me. If I do a search on indeed.com, monster.com, idealist.org or a similar job search site and no jobs come up, then it’s not a career path I would pursue.
5. It must be a field where I can learn more about the industry on my own. Once I worked for a law firm for close to a year. Since I didn’t have any experience in the legal field, at first I felt lost. I immediately went to the library and found a book on the type of law the firm practiced and read it in a week. My comprehension then tripled. When I worked for a social service agency, I read a few books on getting grants and the same thing happened. I understood much more about what I was doing on the day to day.
6. As I am still raising my children, the area where I work must offer part-time, job-share or flex-time opportunities.
I just read an article I wrote in 2015 of the benefits of drinking peppermint tea. I need to get back to this!
Here's the thing, I am inspired by Life's Vintage Magazine which is put out by Life Senior Services in Tulsa Oklahoma. I love the look of it, how it has local stuff and I imagined myself sitting in a little office in Brooklyn putting together or working on such a magazine. That never happened. I did work on a magazine in Manhattan for a few months. But that was not sustainable.
Anyway, while I love Life's Vintage Magazine, I get overwhelmed thinking about what it takes to put it together. I'm volunteering with two small organizations where I could volunteer to put together a magazine, but I'm afraid of not being able to sustain it. I'm not sure if I want it enough to actually do it. If I would LOVE each issue and the process of putting it together, then perhaps it would be worth it. Also I've come to a point in life I would love to bond--PROFESSIONALLY--with more people. I look forward to professional bonding. You know me with the social anxiety which is still alive and well. A magazine for the small church I volunteer with might be an awesome project to work on and a way to get to know people.
Anyway, one of the reasons I wanted to make this post is that I was thinking of making a space right here on DayZero as a self help blog.
Then again, I already have 980 pages of self help written over a ten year period. Do I *really* need to write more.
Anyway, while I love Life's Vintage Magazine, I get overwhelmed thinking about what it takes to put it together. I'm volunteering with two small organizations where I could volunteer to put together a magazine, but I'm afraid of not being able to sustain it. I'm not sure if I want it enough to actually do it. If I would LOVE each issue and the process of putting it together, then perhaps it would be worth it. Also I've come to a point in life I would love to bond--PROFESSIONALLY--with more people. I look forward to professional bonding. You know me with the social anxiety which is still alive and well. A magazine for the small church I volunteer with might be an awesome project to work on and a way to get to know people.
Anyway, one of the reasons I wanted to make this post is that I was thinking of making a space right here on DayZero as a self help blog.
Then again, I already have 980 pages of self help written over a ten year period. Do I *really* need to write more.
In BK, I was interested in one day joining the Community Council. Now that I'm no longer there I've been thinking about doing something similar in MoCo, but I'm in MoCo! I don't have a clear picture on how everything runs here, but I did come across a call for applications for the Food Council. I'll keep my eye out for this.
And I will refrain from doing a Google search. That is a bad, time wasting habit that I have, researching things I have a mild curiosity about. I have enough stuff that I'm truly interested in to focus on. I may research the Food Council on a day when I have done all 24 of my habits first.
If I forget later, then I wasn't that interested to begin with.
And I will refrain from doing a Google search. That is a bad, time wasting habit that I have, researching things I have a mild curiosity about. I have enough stuff that I'm truly interested in to focus on. I may research the Food Council on a day when I have done all 24 of my habits first.
If I forget later, then I wasn't that interested to begin with.
About a year ago for this goal, I posted this quote from James Clear: "When you fall in love with the process rather than the product, you don’t have to wait to give yourself permission to be happy. You can be satisfied anytime your system is running."
Today I asked Chat OpenAK to help me to find a corresponding Biblical verse with the same principles.
This is AI's response and I'm familiar with these verses!
AI:
The quote you shared from James Clear highlights the importance of finding joy and satisfaction in the process rather than solely focusing on the end result. This principle aligns with the biblical teaching of finding contentment and gratitude in all circumstances. Here are a few verses that reflect similar principles:
Philippians 4:11-13: "Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me."
Ecclesiastes 3:12-13: "I perceived that there is nothing better for them than to be joyful and to do good as long as they live; also that everyone should eat and drink and take pleasure in all his toil—this is God's gift to man."
Colossians 3:23-24: "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ."
These verses emphasize finding contentment and joy in the process of our work and activities, rather than solely seeking fulfillment in the outcome. They encourage us to approach our endeavors with gratitude, diligence, and the understanding that our true satisfaction comes from serving and glorifying God in all that we do.
Today I asked Chat OpenAK to help me to find a corresponding Biblical verse with the same principles.
This is AI's response and I'm familiar with these verses!
AI:
The quote you shared from James Clear highlights the importance of finding joy and satisfaction in the process rather than solely focusing on the end result. This principle aligns with the biblical teaching of finding contentment and gratitude in all circumstances. Here are a few verses that reflect similar principles:
Philippians 4:11-13: "Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me."
Ecclesiastes 3:12-13: "I perceived that there is nothing better for them than to be joyful and to do good as long as they live; also that everyone should eat and drink and take pleasure in all his toil—this is God's gift to man."
Colossians 3:23-24: "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ."
These verses emphasize finding contentment and joy in the process of our work and activities, rather than solely seeking fulfillment in the outcome. They encourage us to approach our endeavors with gratitude, diligence, and the understanding that our true satisfaction comes from serving and glorifying God in all that we do.
7/13/23
All below is something I wrote in 8/2/2010.
"Brian Tracy, author of Eat that Frog: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time says in order to have priorities, you must have posterities or things that you will do later—or not at all."
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The answer is that I’m not procrastinating, I’m sequencing. There’s a difference. Sequencing, or putting off one goal while you pursue another is necessary for a multi-career, multi-dream person like myself. I can’t do it all, not all at once, so my community board meetings and literary fiction will just have to wait until I’m further along with reaching my primary goals.
Julie Cohen in her book Your Work, Your Life...Your Way says in order to have a fulfilling and balanced life, learning how to prioritize is a necessity. Brian Tracy, author of Eat that Frog: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time says in order to have priorities, you must have posterities or things that you will do later—or not at all. That’s what my future community board meetings are to me. Something I’ll get to eventually—or not.
So how do I know I’m prioritizing and not procrastinating? I know that I’m not procrastinating because I’m currently working on three major goals—writing (self-help and romance) parenting and my day job. And that’s plenty. I used to believe that I had to work on five or six major goals all at once, but since then I’ve learned from self-help authors like Barrie Dolnick who say that serenity leads to longevity. Pursuing five or six major goals at once was a direct route to overwhelm, stress and burnout. If I want to go the distance with a huge goal, the less distracted I am the greater the chance of my success.
All below is something I wrote in 8/2/2010.
"Brian Tracy, author of Eat that Frog: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time says in order to have priorities, you must have posterities or things that you will do later—or not at all."
***
The answer is that I’m not procrastinating, I’m sequencing. There’s a difference. Sequencing, or putting off one goal while you pursue another is necessary for a multi-career, multi-dream person like myself. I can’t do it all, not all at once, so my community board meetings and literary fiction will just have to wait until I’m further along with reaching my primary goals.
Julie Cohen in her book Your Work, Your Life...Your Way says in order to have a fulfilling and balanced life, learning how to prioritize is a necessity. Brian Tracy, author of Eat that Frog: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time says in order to have priorities, you must have posterities or things that you will do later—or not at all. That’s what my future community board meetings are to me. Something I’ll get to eventually—or not.
So how do I know I’m prioritizing and not procrastinating? I know that I’m not procrastinating because I’m currently working on three major goals—writing (self-help and romance) parenting and my day job. And that’s plenty. I used to believe that I had to work on five or six major goals all at once, but since then I’ve learned from self-help authors like Barrie Dolnick who say that serenity leads to longevity. Pursuing five or six major goals at once was a direct route to overwhelm, stress and burnout. If I want to go the distance with a huge goal, the less distracted I am the greater the chance of my success.
7/13/23
Everything below is is from something I wrote 12/3/12. I now follow a daily habit list.
“Wisdom is knowing what to do next; Skill is knowing how to do it, and virtue is doing it."--David Starr Jordan
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Now that I’ve dedicated every Monday to completing projects and Friday for new ideas, I don’t have to constantly worry about whether or not I’m doing the right thing at the right time.
Without parameters your incomplete goals can stay on your mind night and day. You’ll feel guilty because you’re not moving the projects along. But if you say “Every Saturday at 2 pm, I’ll do the house project,” your subconscious can breath a sigh of relief.
Of course it’s not enough to set aside time for the work, you must actually follow through. As David Starr Jordan once said: “Wisdom is knowing what to do next; Skill is knowing how to do it, and virtue is doing it.”
Everything below is is from something I wrote 12/3/12. I now follow a daily habit list.
“Wisdom is knowing what to do next; Skill is knowing how to do it, and virtue is doing it."--David Starr Jordan
***
Now that I’ve dedicated every Monday to completing projects and Friday for new ideas, I don’t have to constantly worry about whether or not I’m doing the right thing at the right time.
Without parameters your incomplete goals can stay on your mind night and day. You’ll feel guilty because you’re not moving the projects along. But if you say “Every Saturday at 2 pm, I’ll do the house project,” your subconscious can breath a sigh of relief.
Of course it’s not enough to set aside time for the work, you must actually follow through. As David Starr Jordan once said: “Wisdom is knowing what to do next; Skill is knowing how to do it, and virtue is doing it.”
I put several Hallmark movies on my DVR. Right now I'm watching "A Christmas Cookie Catastrophe.
Starts off with the heroine doing a commercial updating a commercial that she made when she was a child about Cooper's cookies. A supportive assistant is there immediatelly to offer positive feedback. As usual the sidekick is a minority member. Then two "elves" come up to her asking about the Christmas party and how to dress. Then the assistant gives the heroine a newspaper with a bad review about how she has changed the Cooper comany since she took over.
Then there is a boardmember standing there who makes a threat that she better do well or she'll replace her.
the hero is introduced carrying a Christmas tree. He has a precocious daughter.
Heroine is walking down the street and runs into precocious daughter who tells her that her dad thinks the new CEO of Coopers is a jerk.
Then there is the Christmas party. the assistant urges the heroine to give a speech the way her grandmother always used to.
Oh I forgot earlier the heroine went to vist her grandmother's gravesite to give her a financial report.
During the party the secret recipe for the cookies is stolen. ther heroine finds out the next day but does not want to call the police. If people know the secret recipe ismissing they will lose business. At the crime scene there is a card for a bakery in town.
The next morning the heroine goes to the bakery which is owned by the heor. and it's a funny scene where she asks if anyone has been looking suspicious. The hero describes the heroine, but it takes a while for her to get it. She asks him where he was between 6 and 12 the night before because a crime has been committed, but she won't tell him what crime. They argue and he kicks her out. I really like that scene where they are outside talking.
That night she has a brief chat with someone who suggest that they use the ingredients on the box and get an expert to figure out the ratios. The next morning she goes to the hero and asks him to be the expert. He balks saying first she accuses him of a crime, now she wants him to figure out the recipe. He says no, she says she'll pay. It's been revealed earlier that he needs a new oven so that's how the deal is struck.
The next day she sets up her office in his bakery. The hero balks. His bakery assistant tells her that he likes to be alone. He storms off, he heroine followes. He's off to buy spices. She asks him why he's baking cookies he seems like a rye kind of man. He says he's actually "sourdough." and asks her what kind of bread she is. She says, she's banana. He says that's not bread that's cake. Loved that exchange. Very flirty. Then he tells her that he doesn't bake cookies for himself but for his daughter and apparently for her, meaning the heroine. Very flirty. Loved it!
Okay I may not come back to finish the rest of this plot. I may just move on to the next movie.
Starts off with the heroine doing a commercial updating a commercial that she made when she was a child about Cooper's cookies. A supportive assistant is there immediatelly to offer positive feedback. As usual the sidekick is a minority member. Then two "elves" come up to her asking about the Christmas party and how to dress. Then the assistant gives the heroine a newspaper with a bad review about how she has changed the Cooper comany since she took over.
Then there is a boardmember standing there who makes a threat that she better do well or she'll replace her.
the hero is introduced carrying a Christmas tree. He has a precocious daughter.
Heroine is walking down the street and runs into precocious daughter who tells her that her dad thinks the new CEO of Coopers is a jerk.
Then there is the Christmas party. the assistant urges the heroine to give a speech the way her grandmother always used to.
Oh I forgot earlier the heroine went to vist her grandmother's gravesite to give her a financial report.
During the party the secret recipe for the cookies is stolen. ther heroine finds out the next day but does not want to call the police. If people know the secret recipe ismissing they will lose business. At the crime scene there is a card for a bakery in town.
The next morning the heroine goes to the bakery which is owned by the heor. and it's a funny scene where she asks if anyone has been looking suspicious. The hero describes the heroine, but it takes a while for her to get it. She asks him where he was between 6 and 12 the night before because a crime has been committed, but she won't tell him what crime. They argue and he kicks her out. I really like that scene where they are outside talking.
That night she has a brief chat with someone who suggest that they use the ingredients on the box and get an expert to figure out the ratios. The next morning she goes to the hero and asks him to be the expert. He balks saying first she accuses him of a crime, now she wants him to figure out the recipe. He says no, she says she'll pay. It's been revealed earlier that he needs a new oven so that's how the deal is struck.
The next day she sets up her office in his bakery. The hero balks. His bakery assistant tells her that he likes to be alone. He storms off, he heroine followes. He's off to buy spices. She asks him why he's baking cookies he seems like a rye kind of man. He says he's actually "sourdough." and asks her what kind of bread she is. She says, she's banana. He says that's not bread that's cake. Loved that exchange. Very flirty. Then he tells her that he doesn't bake cookies for himself but for his daughter and apparently for her, meaning the heroine. Very flirty. Loved it!
Okay I may not come back to finish the rest of this plot. I may just move on to the next movie.
7/11/23
From something I wrote in 6/2/2014
"June is Audiobook Month, an awareness month introduced by the Audio Publishers Association (APA)"
If it weren’t for audiobooks, I wonder if I would be writing about life coaching today. About 10 or 11 years ago I was browsing through a discount bookstore in Manhattan when I came across two audiobooks one was Ekhert Tolle’s The Power of Now and the other was Martin Seligman’s Authentic Happiness. I took them to work with me the next day and listened to them while I processed health insurance claims.
Then I kept listening to these books over and over, adding other self-help titles. A year later when I began to write about life coaching, much of what I wrote was based on these books.
From something I wrote in 6/2/2014
"June is Audiobook Month, an awareness month introduced by the Audio Publishers Association (APA)"
If it weren’t for audiobooks, I wonder if I would be writing about life coaching today. About 10 or 11 years ago I was browsing through a discount bookstore in Manhattan when I came across two audiobooks one was Ekhert Tolle’s The Power of Now and the other was Martin Seligman’s Authentic Happiness. I took them to work with me the next day and listened to them while I processed health insurance claims.
Then I kept listening to these books over and over, adding other self-help titles. A year later when I began to write about life coaching, much of what I wrote was based on these books.
7/10/23
From something I wrote 4/6/2009
As you are doing these activities, take notice of how you feel. How do you feel when you read information about your chosen career—bored to death, a little nervous, but excited, absolute dread? Listen to the yearnings of your heart and the warnings from your gut. Continue to ask yourself is this really the right career path for you. Make sure you write all of this down in your journal.
Below is a centering exercise curtsey of Ananda Kiamsha Madelyn Leeke who was our expert guest last week.
Exercise
Take a deep breath and close your eyes. Bring your hand to your heart. Continue breathing in and breathing out as you slow yourself down. When you get to a place of stillness, say a surrender prayer with an intention to open your heart, eyes, mind, and spirit. Then ask your higher self, Spirit, Creator, God, Goddess, or whatever name you call on for spiritual guidance to reveal to you what you want from life. Say a prayer of thanksgiving. Be patient with yourself. Remember to stay open to the answers because they come in many ways. Write down the answers. Reflect on them. Ask for more guidance. Be willing to follow the guidance. Most of all be ready and committed to do the work of finding out what you want from life.
From something I wrote 4/6/2009
As you are doing these activities, take notice of how you feel. How do you feel when you read information about your chosen career—bored to death, a little nervous, but excited, absolute dread? Listen to the yearnings of your heart and the warnings from your gut. Continue to ask yourself is this really the right career path for you. Make sure you write all of this down in your journal.
Below is a centering exercise curtsey of Ananda Kiamsha Madelyn Leeke who was our expert guest last week.
Exercise
Take a deep breath and close your eyes. Bring your hand to your heart. Continue breathing in and breathing out as you slow yourself down. When you get to a place of stillness, say a surrender prayer with an intention to open your heart, eyes, mind, and spirit. Then ask your higher self, Spirit, Creator, God, Goddess, or whatever name you call on for spiritual guidance to reveal to you what you want from life. Say a prayer of thanksgiving. Be patient with yourself. Remember to stay open to the answers because they come in many ways. Write down the answers. Reflect on them. Ask for more guidance. Be willing to follow the guidance. Most of all be ready and committed to do the work of finding out what you want from life.
Visit the Smithsonian National Zoological Park
Address: 3001 Connecticut Ave NW, Washington, DC 20008
Address: 3001 Connecticut Ave NW, Washington, DC 20008
Note added to goal See at least 3 BlackRock Center for the Arts Center Performances
Last night I went out for my walk and noticed loud music. I thought it was someone blasting music in their car. Turned out to be a concert. I looked and I see the name of one group on a flier and another group on Patch. They were okay. But it brings to mind the time I was leaving what job was it and I bumped into a concert at South Street Seaport. That's when I discovered Pete Francis singing Don't Go with Your Dreams Untold.
July thunder, something's undercover
Something's lost, something ain't right
You slide by me
the cool air of night
Drive by in my car for you
Look me in the eyes,
that's what i can believe
July thunder, something's undercover
Something's lost, something ain't right
You slide by me
the cool air of night
Drive by in my car for you
Look me in the eyes,
that's what i can believe
7/9/23
From an AARP article about exercise and brain health.
“It seems it is never too late to start,” Casaletto says. You don’t have to be a gym rat either. While the study did find that greater physical activity was associated with more synaptic protein levels in brain tissue, 'this suggests that every movement counts when it comes to brain health,'" she adds.
https://www.aarp.org/health/brain-health/info-2022/workouts-for-brain-health.html?cmp=SNO-ABC-TW&socialid=10419860875
From an AARP article about exercise and brain health.
“It seems it is never too late to start,” Casaletto says. You don’t have to be a gym rat either. While the study did find that greater physical activity was associated with more synaptic protein levels in brain tissue, 'this suggests that every movement counts when it comes to brain health,'" she adds.
https://www.aarp.org/health/brain-health/info-2022/workouts-for-brain-health.html?cmp=SNO-ABC-TW&socialid=10419860875
7/6/23
After reading something I wrote 8/12/2013 about Visualization, I asked AI how Visualization fits in with Christianity. This is part of the response:
"In addition, Christian faith emphasizes the importance of trust and reliance on God's power and sovereignty. While visualization can enhance the prayer experience, it is ultimately God who brings about the fulfillment of prayers according to His divine wisdom and timing.
Therefore, visualization can be a helpful tool in Christian prayer, but it is not a guarantee for specific outcomes. It is through faith, trust, and surrender to God's will that believers find strength and hope in their prayers."
After reading something I wrote 8/12/2013 about Visualization, I asked AI how Visualization fits in with Christianity. This is part of the response:
"In addition, Christian faith emphasizes the importance of trust and reliance on God's power and sovereignty. While visualization can enhance the prayer experience, it is ultimately God who brings about the fulfillment of prayers according to His divine wisdom and timing.
Therefore, visualization can be a helpful tool in Christian prayer, but it is not a guarantee for specific outcomes. It is through faith, trust, and surrender to God's will that believers find strength and hope in their prayers."
Note added to goal Write article called: Lower Your Expectations. Add notes here
I'm about to change the time on my Scrivener habit from 15 minutes a day down to 5. Just as recently went from 10 steps a day down to 6.
Photo added to goal Read and extract great quote from 5 Articles on 50PlusToday
Just as I was thinking about writing self-help articles every once in a while again like I did in my 30s, I saw a tweet from the 50Plus today website on my timeline. I'm not going to be hasty, but hmmmm....
"Many of us, including myself, felt overlooked early in our careers. As skills, creativity and talents often develop later in life, it may be that we were had not fully matured at that time. In fact, stories about late bloomers are very common. Take Laura Ingalls Wilder for example. She was 65 years old when her first book, “Little House in the Big Woods” was published. Julia Child released her first cookbook at age 50. And Rodney Dangerfield did not catch his big break until the age of 46. The list goes on and on."
https://50plus-today.com/late-bloomer-great-career-at-any-age/
https://50plus-today.com/late-bloomer-great-career-at-any-age/
7/3/23
From something I wrote 4/15/13
"If you believe worry protects you from bad things happening, think again. Webmd.com says excessive worry can interfere with your appetite, lifestyle habits, relationships, sleep, and job performance. Whereas positive thinking, according to the Mayo Clinic, is linked to increased life span, lower rates of depression, greater resistance to the common cold, better psychological and physical well-being, reduced risk of death from cardiovascular disease, and better coping skills during hardships and times of stress."
From something I wrote 4/15/13
"If you believe worry protects you from bad things happening, think again. Webmd.com says excessive worry can interfere with your appetite, lifestyle habits, relationships, sleep, and job performance. Whereas positive thinking, according to the Mayo Clinic, is linked to increased life span, lower rates of depression, greater resistance to the common cold, better psychological and physical well-being, reduced risk of death from cardiovascular disease, and better coping skills during hardships and times of stress."
7/2/23
Such a great show! I changed the goal from every episode to every season. I watched most of the episodes and I'm considering this goal done! And I need to note that I was able to watch, concetrate on and enjoy this show during a very bad time in my life. Now I'd like to find another show.
Such a great show! I changed the goal from every episode to every season. I watched most of the episodes and I'm considering this goal done! And I need to note that I was able to watch, concetrate on and enjoy this show during a very bad time in my life. Now I'd like to find another show.
7/2/23
"So all of my writing about self-confidence over the years did not make me appear to be a more confident speaker. Not at all, but I would definitely say I have become a heck of a lot smarter at managing my lack of confidence."
From something I wrote 11/12/18:
A few months ago, I had to put together a presentation for a class. I have done dozens of presentations for dozens of classes in my lifetime and this is how they usually go: I do the research, writing etc according to the instructor’s specifications. When all of that is done, I practice and practice trying to memorize the information. Because memorization never goes well, I become steeped in anxiety and have trouble sleeping two to three days before I have to present. Then I present stumbling over my words, repeating myself, forgetting entire sections, essentially living every public speaking nightmare imaginable.
After enduring this painful process my entire life, I decided for this presentation that I would do everything except the part where I try to memorize. Instead I practiced reading word for word, which is also what I did when it came time to present. As I read directly from my documents, glancing up maybe once or twice the entire time, I was aware that I was not projecting an image of confidence. But inside something very different was happening. I knew that I had put hours and hours into my research and even more time into forming my argument then putting it all together. No one could see how I felt, of course, all they saw was someone commiting the public speaking sin of reading directly from notes.
So all of my writing about self-confidence over the years did not make me appear to be a more confident speaker. Not at all, but I would definitely say I have become a heck of a lot smarter at managing my lack of confidence. Because I know I have no problem reading out loud, I experienced no anxiety prior to the presentation and no mortification when it was all over. The one and only thing missing was a dynamic delivery, which I have never been able to pull off anyway no matter how hard I tried. The professor, of course, took off points from the final grade because I barely looked up, but I still received an A-, which is exactly what I had anticipated. Despite my less than stellar performances, I can’t remember ever getting anything below a “B” on a presentation in my life
"So all of my writing about self-confidence over the years did not make me appear to be a more confident speaker. Not at all, but I would definitely say I have become a heck of a lot smarter at managing my lack of confidence."
From something I wrote 11/12/18:
A few months ago, I had to put together a presentation for a class. I have done dozens of presentations for dozens of classes in my lifetime and this is how they usually go: I do the research, writing etc according to the instructor’s specifications. When all of that is done, I practice and practice trying to memorize the information. Because memorization never goes well, I become steeped in anxiety and have trouble sleeping two to three days before I have to present. Then I present stumbling over my words, repeating myself, forgetting entire sections, essentially living every public speaking nightmare imaginable.
After enduring this painful process my entire life, I decided for this presentation that I would do everything except the part where I try to memorize. Instead I practiced reading word for word, which is also what I did when it came time to present. As I read directly from my documents, glancing up maybe once or twice the entire time, I was aware that I was not projecting an image of confidence. But inside something very different was happening. I knew that I had put hours and hours into my research and even more time into forming my argument then putting it all together. No one could see how I felt, of course, all they saw was someone commiting the public speaking sin of reading directly from notes.
So all of my writing about self-confidence over the years did not make me appear to be a more confident speaker. Not at all, but I would definitely say I have become a heck of a lot smarter at managing my lack of confidence. Because I know I have no problem reading out loud, I experienced no anxiety prior to the presentation and no mortification when it was all over. The one and only thing missing was a dynamic delivery, which I have never been able to pull off anyway no matter how hard I tried. The professor, of course, took off points from the final grade because I barely looked up, but I still received an A-, which is exactly what I had anticipated. Despite my less than stellar performances, I can’t remember ever getting anything below a “B” on a presentation in my life
7/1/23
From something I wrote: 6/20/11
"...Also I knew I had to put to bed the reoccurring “oh no others are leaving me behind” thoughts that crop up when I read about celebrities who are my age. Life is not a race, but rather an individualized journey. The path I’m taking is different than Shaq’s and Edwidge’s, yet it is no less significant...It’s not fair to compare myself to anyone accept who I was yesterday. In my 20s I didn’t have life coaching and now I do. This is an accomplishment that has served me well and will continue to for a very long time to come."
From something I wrote: 6/20/11
"...Also I knew I had to put to bed the reoccurring “oh no others are leaving me behind” thoughts that crop up when I read about celebrities who are my age. Life is not a race, but rather an individualized journey. The path I’m taking is different than Shaq’s and Edwidge’s, yet it is no less significant...It’s not fair to compare myself to anyone accept who I was yesterday. In my 20s I didn’t have life coaching and now I do. This is an accomplishment that has served me well and will continue to for a very long time to come."
6/29/23
From something I wrote 8/20/2006.
"Ekhert Tolle in his book, The Power of Now, says that your journey may be a million steps but the only step that really matters is the step you’re taking right now. And that one step contains within it all other steps and the eventual goal as well.
'When you want what you’ve got and you’re grateful for what you’ve got, that’s true prosperity,'" says Tolle.
From something I wrote 8/20/2006.
"Ekhert Tolle in his book, The Power of Now, says that your journey may be a million steps but the only step that really matters is the step you’re taking right now. And that one step contains within it all other steps and the eventual goal as well.
'When you want what you’ve got and you’re grateful for what you’ve got, that’s true prosperity,'" says Tolle.
6/27/23
"Being grateful is good for your physical health. Psychologists Robert A. Emmons and Michael E. McCullough discovered that grateful people tended to be
more alert, enthusiastic and optimistic. Grateful people also reported fewer physical ailments and were more willing to help others."
From something I wrote 11/8/10
"Being grateful is good for your physical health. Psychologists Robert A. Emmons and Michael E. McCullough discovered that grateful people tended to be
more alert, enthusiastic and optimistic. Grateful people also reported fewer physical ailments and were more willing to help others."
From something I wrote 11/8/10
6/26/23
"A thought alone can trigger a physical response.”
From something I wrote in 2/22/2010.
Visualization is such a powerful tool because your subconscious mind doesn’t distinguish between what you imagine and what is real. As Véronique Vienne wrote in The Art of Imperfection: Simple Ways to make Peace With Yourself “the mind is gullible. Whether we experience something or just imagine it, the same part of the brain lights up. A thought alone can trigger a physical response.”
Visualization is used by top performers. One of my favorite writers, Charles Bukowski wrote about this practice. He wrote, “So I’d always run another film up there in the movie of my mind. I’d think of an old castle in Scotland covered with moss—drawbridges, blue water, trees, blue sky, cumulus clouds…”
"A thought alone can trigger a physical response.”
From something I wrote in 2/22/2010.
Visualization is such a powerful tool because your subconscious mind doesn’t distinguish between what you imagine and what is real. As Véronique Vienne wrote in The Art of Imperfection: Simple Ways to make Peace With Yourself “the mind is gullible. Whether we experience something or just imagine it, the same part of the brain lights up. A thought alone can trigger a physical response.”
Visualization is used by top performers. One of my favorite writers, Charles Bukowski wrote about this practice. He wrote, “So I’d always run another film up there in the movie of my mind. I’d think of an old castle in Scotland covered with moss—drawbridges, blue water, trees, blue sky, cumulus clouds…”
6/25/23
Loving this from an article I wrote 3/7/11:
"while self-help books were available..I was not yet a believer..."
It’s frightening to think of how I managed my work life before the internet. When I was 22 in 1992 my resources were limited to other people in my close circle of acquaintances and one or two magazines with small career sections. While self-help books were available to me at the library I visited frequently, I was not yet a believer.
Today when it comes to learning more about the world of work, along with self-help books, the internet is my oyster. If I run into a problem at work be it technical or interpersonal, I can do a quick search to get another opinion on the subject. I learned how to troubleshoot Windows Movie Maker, some html and the latest resume formats via the internet.
Loving this from an article I wrote 3/7/11:
"while self-help books were available..I was not yet a believer..."
It’s frightening to think of how I managed my work life before the internet. When I was 22 in 1992 my resources were limited to other people in my close circle of acquaintances and one or two magazines with small career sections. While self-help books were available to me at the library I visited frequently, I was not yet a believer.
Today when it comes to learning more about the world of work, along with self-help books, the internet is my oyster. If I run into a problem at work be it technical or interpersonal, I can do a quick search to get another opinion on the subject. I learned how to troubleshoot Windows Movie Maker, some html and the latest resume formats via the internet.
6/22/23:
This is from my journal on 6/20/22: “Oh and how can I forget my Habit List which I have been doing on Day Zero since October 2021--like nine months!!! And before that I was on “Don’t Break the Chain.” Let me go look at that list and see when I started that up again. Yes, I looked at my old “DBC” account and I started it June 10 and was tracking 17 habits at the end. I went straight from there to Day Zero.”
Habitify: 6/22/23
Day Zero: 10/15/21 (approximately)
Don't Break the Chain: 6/15/21 (approximately)
So it's two years of Habit tracking.
This is from my journal on 6/20/22: “Oh and how can I forget my Habit List which I have been doing on Day Zero since October 2021--like nine months!!! And before that I was on “Don’t Break the Chain.” Let me go look at that list and see when I started that up again. Yes, I looked at my old “DBC” account and I started it June 10 and was tracking 17 habits at the end. I went straight from there to Day Zero.”
Habitify: 6/22/23
Day Zero: 10/15/21 (approximately)
Don't Break the Chain: 6/15/21 (approximately)
So it's two years of Habit tracking.
I signed up for Habitify so I could track my habits either online or my phone. I also like the fact that I can write notes. Only the notes are not searchable like on HiveWord. I have a bunch of Habits grouped together to give myself several choices for each day.
I'm going to mark this as done--since I've done it. Then I'm going to create a new "someday" goal where I talk about all of the Habit Lists I've used.
I'm going to mark this as done--since I've done it. Then I'm going to create a new "someday" goal where I talk about all of the Habit Lists I've used.
Since moving to Maryland in February (it's now June 22). I've made several friends in a class, the bus driver who used to take me to the class and some people at church.
June 22 9:00 am. I am going back to using Day Zero as a bucket list again. For close to two years I used it to track my habits, but there was no phone app. I switched to Habitify for $19.99 a year. I can also take notes on goals, BUT I can't see all of my notes. So if I archive a goal, I archive the notes too.
“Writing everything down helps me to set appropriate expectations...It helps me to remember that every little thing takes time. There’s a calm and orderly feeling, as if the list is looking over me...Writing a list can be a secular version of prayer...It’s a way of letting the universe know what you want.” --Sasha Cagen writing in To-Do List: From Buying Milk to Finding a Soul Mate, What Our Lists Reveal About Us
“To clear your mind try a mini-meditation,” advise Pamela Espeland and Elizabeth Verdick in their young adult title See You Later, Procrastinator. The authors suggest readers get comfortable, close their eyes and think of a single word or a single syllable over and over for three to five minutes.--from something i wrote 5/18/09
“The secret to finding time is not to be too ambitions,” writes Robert Ashton in The Life Guide: 10 Things You Need to Know about Everything that Matters. “You don’t need to set aside a day and then plan a comprehensive program of beneficial activities to fill it. Instead you need to have a menu of priorities near and handy,” in other words your to-do list. Never leave home without it.--from something I wrote 7/19/10
"Chastising myself about what I want only weakens the strength of my desire. An unobstructed desire is a powerful thing. 'When you want something,' writes Sonia M. Miller in her book The Attraction Distraction . 'Every part of your being responds.'" --from something I wrote 4/30/12
"I was concerned that writing first would make it more difficult to exercise later. I thought about keeping exercise as priority number one and writing as number two, but then I remembered what Brian Tracey wrote in Eat That Frog. He said if you have to eat two frogs in the morning, eat the ugliest one first. After eight months, my exercise habit is secure and far more attractive than the fiction writing which is now my ugliest frog. "--from something I wrote 11/31/11
"This is because any accomplishment, no matter how small, activates the reward circuitry of our brains. When this pathway is opened, key chemicals are released that give you a feeling of achievement and pride."--from Jacinta M. Jimenez's Burnout Fix, referencing Teresa Amabile and Steven Kramer's book The Progress Principle.
I recently tutored and guided someone writing a 15-page research paper and I really enjoyed it. I'm like, I need to do that with grant writing, approach it academically. I am not an intellectual, but I sure as heck am an academic. I got a whole college degree without even trying very hard from a very good school. Everything else in my life has been SO HARD. Getting a degree was so easy!
I just really enjoy classes. As an example for my job instead of going in for the In Service, we had to take the classes online this year. I completed all of them today.
Grant writing is a dry subject unlike poverty and food insecurity, but I've hung in there before with dry subjects. I can do this!
The first book I borrowed is Webster's New World Grant Writing Handbook. I can read this, internalize it and then use the information to talk to future clients.
I just really enjoy classes. As an example for my job instead of going in for the In Service, we had to take the classes online this year. I completed all of them today.
Grant writing is a dry subject unlike poverty and food insecurity, but I've hung in there before with dry subjects. I can do this!
The first book I borrowed is Webster's New World Grant Writing Handbook. I can read this, internalize it and then use the information to talk to future clients.
"Whether it’s a closet, a cabinet, the trunk of the car, or an entire room, cleaning almost always ends with a moment of satisfaction."
https://nationaldaycalendar.com/21-ways-to-beat-boredsome/
https://nationaldaycalendar.com/21-ways-to-beat-boredsome/
Wow, the last part of this quote speaks to my frugalista soul. And can be a new life philosophy. Don't concern myself with gaining more, but rather focus on *not* losing the treasures I already have..."
"It seems that in old age...the ability to be satisfied with one’s own lot increases; this reduces...conflicts as well as the experience of ...compromise. Older people are more likely to adopt the constructive attitude of making the most of what they already (or still) have. Their concern is not with having more, but with losing less..."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201910/what-love-means-when-youre-old
"It seems that in old age...the ability to be satisfied with one’s own lot increases; this reduces...conflicts as well as the experience of ...compromise. Older people are more likely to adopt the constructive attitude of making the most of what they already (or still) have. Their concern is not with having more, but with losing less..."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201910/what-love-means-when-youre-old
I read the Prayer of Jabez wayyyyyy back circa 2001
From Wikipedia:
"The Prayer of Jabez: Breaking Through to the Blessed Life is a book by Bruce Wilkinson published in 2000 by Multnomah Books as the first book in the "BreakThrough" book series. It is based on the Old Testament passage 1 Chronicles 4:9–10:
Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother had named him Jabez, saying: "I gave birth to him in pain." Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, saying: "Oh that You would bless me indeed and enlarge my territory! Let Your hand be with me, and keep me from the evil one." And God granted his request. (NIV)
In the book, Wilkinson encourages Christians to invoke this prayer for themselves on a daily basis:
I challenge you to make the Jabez prayer for blessing part of the daily fabric of your life. To do that, I encourage you to follow unwaveringly the plan outlined here for the next thirty days. By the end of that time, you'll be noticing significant changes in your life, and the prayer will be on its way to becoming a treasured, lifelong habit."
From Wikipedia:
"The Prayer of Jabez: Breaking Through to the Blessed Life is a book by Bruce Wilkinson published in 2000 by Multnomah Books as the first book in the "BreakThrough" book series. It is based on the Old Testament passage 1 Chronicles 4:9–10:
Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother had named him Jabez, saying: "I gave birth to him in pain." Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, saying: "Oh that You would bless me indeed and enlarge my territory! Let Your hand be with me, and keep me from the evil one." And God granted his request. (NIV)
In the book, Wilkinson encourages Christians to invoke this prayer for themselves on a daily basis:
I challenge you to make the Jabez prayer for blessing part of the daily fabric of your life. To do that, I encourage you to follow unwaveringly the plan outlined here for the next thirty days. By the end of that time, you'll be noticing significant changes in your life, and the prayer will be on its way to becoming a treasured, lifelong habit."
I found a beautiful serenity prayer song on youtube:
🎶🎶🎶
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change
the courage to change all I can
and the wisdom to know the difference
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iKhAg2dMKbo
🎶🎶🎶
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change
the courage to change all I can
and the wisdom to know the difference
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iKhAg2dMKbo
"A tree doesn’t have self-esteem issues. A bird doesn’t ask itself, 'Am I good enough?' Why should you? Are your attempts to become somebody actually working? If not, it might be time for you to stop trying to be “somebody” and just relax. Imagine the sense of freedom that you would experience if you were to stop trying to be 'good enough.' Suddenly, the burden you’ve being carrying on your shoulders would become lighter."-https://tinybuddha.com/blog/why-we-should-all-stop-trying-to-be-good-enough/